Is there such a thing for sony ericssons? if there is please pist it up

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SE n Symbian UIQ SE is different.
It's easy to find IR remote appz for a P800/900 .

Or in other words, no.

As the previous poster said, you can get such apps for UIQ/S60, but such apps aren't available for "regular" SE phones.

Whilst its a shame, most of these IR apps are pretty useless, as the IR port on the phones is pretty feeble on their output, and you are close enough to most devices to press the darned buttons anywhere.