garnet4david2001
5th July 2006, 06:42
Why Women Dress "Sexy", How To Attract Them
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Have you ever wondered why women you see out at
bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and restaurants)
sometimes dress so SEXY?
It's an interesting question.
I mean, let's think about it from the woman's perspective...
An attractive woman gets attention from men all
the time... no matter WHAT she's wearing.
Attractive women don't have to "accent" their beauty
in order to attract men.
And the question becomes VERY interesting when
you consider that often it's the most BEAUTIFUL women
that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance their beauty.
You know what I mean...
A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation
to make her one cup larger...
A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall
shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes...
A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front
of the mirror getting ready to go out... and puts
on tons of makeup...
AND FOR WHAT?
Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and
effort... spending HOURS and HOURS to get that "extra
little bit" of beauty, when a woman already has "more
than enough"?
Hey, no one ever said humans made SENSE.
Especially WOMEN... lol. (Don't get too excited.
Men have their strange points as well.)
Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why
women go to these lengths to squeeze that "extra little
bit" out of their beauty...
1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The
Best Man
Let's turn this picture around, and look at it
from another direction.
Let's imagine that an attractive woman is getting
ready to go to a party.
There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred
women at this party (I know, I know... you think that
I must be smoking something... because most parties
have 100 men and 10 women... and resemble the sausage
counter at your local market... but humor me here
for a second).
If there are going to be a hundred men at this
party, it follows that a few of those men are going
to be the "best" ones.
Do you think this particular woman is going to
want to settle for one of the "random sausages" running
around?
Nope.
She wants the "best" one... if possible.
And that guy has OPTIONS.
Soooo... she needs to "fix herself up", EVEN THOUGH
SHE'S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL... if she wants to have the
BEST chance of getting THAT guy.
2. Competition From Other Women
This particular idea was one of the most interesting
and surprising things I learned about women while
I was educating myself about dating and attraction.
Here's the deal:
Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY competitive.
A few years ago, when I first moved to Los Angeles,
I was introduced to a concept called "The Bitch Look".
Sounds charming, doesn't it?
Here's how it works...
When a "hot" woman walks into a room, EVERYONE
checks her out.
The "sausage" looks her up and down with a "let
me get a really good look because I'll be using me
as a spank-it fantasy later.
The "top guys" who have options glance at her and
make a "mental note" to talk to her later.
The OTHER hot women look at her and give her...
yep, you guessed it.... THE BITCH LOOK.
Why?
Because another hot woman is instantly seen as
COMPETITION.
A hot woman doesn't want OTHER hot women competing
with her for the "best guys".
So they give other women "bitch looks".
It's competition, intimidation, and millions of
years of evolution all rolled up into one special
package.
(Think about this for a minute, because there's
a clue here about how to attract the MOST attractive
women. I'll reveal the secret later...)
So let's just say that attractive women DON'T LIKE
COMPETITION.
In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX
THEMSELVES UP... and emphasize their good points TO
THE MAX.
When an already-beautiful goes to the trouble to
pick out just the right clothes... the ones that flatter
her figure... and put on just the right makeup...
in a way that draws attention to her finer points...
and styles her hair... in a way that draws attention
to her and frames her face...
...it puts her ABOVE the competition
3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval
Now that we've talked about a couple of the underlying
reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves
more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason
that has the most VALUE to you...
This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING
beautiful women.
But let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet...
At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior
are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
Some evolutionary theorists think that the basic
formula goes like this:
If you get more attention from others, and those
others like you more, then you and your offspring
are more likely to survive and pass on your genes
to future generations.
Is this making sense?
Think about it this way:
If others of your species DON'T like you and don't
give you any attention, you are going to have a hard
time finding a mate... and reproducing.
And if others don't like you, then you aren't going
to have the benefits that come from the group... like
protection, combined effort, etc.
It just so happens that an attractive woman has
an UNCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of whether
or not "the group" likes and approves of her...
It's the amount of ATTENTION she gets.
If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps
her feeling "OK". She knows, at a deep, primal level
that she's accepted by the group... and that she's
going to stay healthy, and have a good chance of mating
with a "top male".
But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to
it (don't they all?).
Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions
(very addictive chemicals), attention and approval
can lead to a literal ADDICTION.
It's like money, fame, power... all the famous
ones... YOU CAN'T GET ENOUGH.
And here's another VERY interesting point:
If you're a beautiful woman who is always getting
attention and approval from men, and you meet a man
who DOESN'T give you that attention and approval,
it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.
Further, if the man you're interacting with actively
AVOIDS giving you attention... and gives you DISAPPROVAL,
it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR
SYSTEMS.
Again, attractive women don't meet a lot of guys
that could care less about her beauty... and, instead,
see it as a "cover up" for some "hidden" thing...
Which leads me to the "secret" I mentioned earlier...
If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these "unusually
beautiful" women, then you need to get a clue about
what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one
of the most "desirable" men.
And how can you do that?
1. Become rich and famous.
2. Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt.
3. Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.
Here's the interesting thing about triggering ATTRACTION:
When you do it, she can't CONTROL it.
If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you, I'll
guarantee you that she didn't "think about it and
decide to feel it".
And I guarantee you that she can't CHANGE IT by
THINKING ABOUT IT.
And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER
this "automatic and unconscious" physical and emotional
response called attraction IS?
Here's a hint:
It has something to do with these two concepts
we've been talking about... ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
If you're interacting with an unusually attractive
woman, it's VERY important that you don't communicate
to her that you are "overwhelmed by her beauty"...
or that you can't control yourself.
Further, if you actively control the amount of
attention that you give her... and you don't show
her "approval" too quickly (and even show her some
DISAPPROVAL)... you'll often create a POWERFUL interest
inside of her.
Why is this?
Well, think about it for a minute.
You're the hot woman walking into the "sausage
party".
For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk
up to you and say "you're really hot" and "can I get
you a drink?".
Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can't
stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you
make it clear that they would be willing to do anything
for you...
And then you meet a guy that isn't like any of
these other guys AT ALL.
He's clearly not impressed with your beauty, and
he's even busting your balls...
You can't tell if he likes you or not, and you
feel CHALLENGED by him.
How are you going to respond?
Let's add another element...
For some reason you can't explain, you're starting
to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.
NOW what do you?
That's right: You give him all of YOUR attention
and approval... hoping that he will give YOU some
in return.
In other words, you switch from the one being pursued
to the one DOING the pursuing.
And so the question is... HOW?
How do you create this situation, and communicate
these things to an attractive woman?
How do you do it in such a way that it creates
ATTRACTION... and gets her to start pursing YOU?
I've given you a lot of good ideas here.
They will get you started.
But if you'd REALLY like to learn how to take control
of "attention and approval", and turn them into TOOLS
that you can use to attract those "unusually beautiful"
women, then I'd like to recommend that you invest
in my new Cocky Comedy CD/DVD program.
It has taken me many years of time, effort, and
energy to really "get" how to use a "personality based
approach" to attract beautiful women.
If you've been reading these newsletters for any
length of time, then you understand just how important
the "Cocky & Funny" technique is for attracting women.
You may have even used it, and found that it gets
a VERY different kind of response from women than
"normal conversation".
Well, in this program, I and some amazing guest
speakers will teach you the foundations of Cocky Comedy...
and then we'll teach you literally HUNDREDS of different
ways to use it... with individual scripts and lines...
And we'll teach you how to weave it all together
into conversations in ANY situation.
This program is not only comprehensive, but it's
COMPLETELY different from anything else available
anywhere.
It's a concept that I've pioneered, and it's only
available here.
I really encourage you to go here and watch the
video clips of the program (you'll get a lot from
just watching the samples):
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/CockyComedy/
And if you haven't taken the time to go and download
my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to do that immediately. You can download it right
now, and be reading it in literally MINUTES. It will
teach you a TON about how to control yourself and
your interactions with women in a way that triggers
ATTRACTION... go download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/eBook/
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
....don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!
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Inc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Dating
and David DeAngelo are trademarks of David
DeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all of
the following by accepting and reading this: You
understand this to be an expression of opinions
and not professional advice. It is only to be
used for personal entertainment purposes. You are
solely responsible for the use of the ideas,
concepts, and content and hold David DeAngelo
Communications Inc. and all members and affiliates
harmless in any event or claim. If you are under
the age of 18, please go to the link at the end
of this e-letter to stop receiving it or send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard HughesPkwy, 5th Floor
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of this newsletter. To sign yourself up for this
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Have you ever wondered why women you see out at
bars and nightclubs (and even at malls and restaurants)
sometimes dress so SEXY?
It's an interesting question.
I mean, let's think about it from the woman's perspective...
An attractive woman gets attention from men all
the time... no matter WHAT she's wearing.
Attractive women don't have to "accent" their beauty
in order to attract men.
And the question becomes VERY interesting when
you consider that often it's the most BEAUTIFUL women
that go to the GREATEST lengths to enhance their beauty.
You know what I mean...
A perfectly beautiful woman gets an expensive operation
to make her one cup larger...
A tall, stunning model spends all day at the mall
shopping for just the right high-heeled shoes...
A naturally beautiful woman spends hours in front
of the mirror getting ready to go out... and puts
on tons of makeup...
AND FOR WHAT?
Could it possibly be worth all the extra time and
effort... spending HOURS and HOURS to get that "extra
little bit" of beauty, when a woman already has "more
than enough"?
Hey, no one ever said humans made SENSE.
Especially WOMEN... lol. (Don't get too excited.
Men have their strange points as well.)
Let me tell you about a few of the reasons why
women go to these lengths to squeeze that "extra little
bit" out of their beauty...
1. To Maximize Her Strengths In Order To Attract The
Best Man
Let's turn this picture around, and look at it
from another direction.
Let's imagine that an attractive woman is getting
ready to go to a party.
There are going to be a hundred men and a hundred
women at this party (I know, I know... you think that
I must be smoking something... because most parties
have 100 men and 10 women... and resemble the sausage
counter at your local market... but humor me here
for a second).
If there are going to be a hundred men at this
party, it follows that a few of those men are going
to be the "best" ones.
Do you think this particular woman is going to
want to settle for one of the "random sausages" running
around?
Nope.
She wants the "best" one... if possible.
And that guy has OPTIONS.
Soooo... she needs to "fix herself up", EVEN THOUGH
SHE'S ALREADY BEAUTIFUL... if she wants to have the
BEST chance of getting THAT guy.
2. Competition From Other Women
This particular idea was one of the most interesting
and surprising things I learned about women while
I was educating myself about dating and attraction.
Here's the deal:
Attractive women tend to be VERY, VERY competitive.
A few years ago, when I first moved to Los Angeles,
I was introduced to a concept called "The Bitch Look".
Sounds charming, doesn't it?
Here's how it works...
When a "hot" woman walks into a room, EVERYONE
checks her out.
The "sausage" looks her up and down with a "let
me get a really good look because I'll be using me
as a spank-it fantasy later.
The "top guys" who have options glance at her and
make a "mental note" to talk to her later.
The OTHER hot women look at her and give her...
yep, you guessed it.... THE BITCH LOOK.
Why?
Because another hot woman is instantly seen as
COMPETITION.
A hot woman doesn't want OTHER hot women competing
with her for the "best guys".
So they give other women "bitch looks".
It's competition, intimidation, and millions of
years of evolution all rolled up into one special
package.
(Think about this for a minute, because there's
a clue here about how to attract the MOST attractive
women. I'll reveal the secret later...)
So let's just say that attractive women DON'T LIKE
COMPETITION.
In order to MINIMIZE their competition, they FIX
THEMSELVES UP... and emphasize their good points TO
THE MAX.
When an already-beautiful goes to the trouble to
pick out just the right clothes... the ones that flatter
her figure... and put on just the right makeup...
in a way that draws attention to her finer points...
and styles her hair... in a way that draws attention
to her and frames her face...
...it puts her ABOVE the competition
3. To Get The Most Attention And Approval
Now that we've talked about a couple of the underlying
reasons why women go to great lengths to make themselves
more beautiful, I want to talk about the one reason
that has the most VALUE to you...
This reason holds the secret of actually ATTRACTING
beautiful women.
But let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet...
At the very CORE of human psychology and behavior
are the twin concepts of ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
Some evolutionary theorists think that the basic
formula goes like this:
If you get more attention from others, and those
others like you more, then you and your offspring
are more likely to survive and pass on your genes
to future generations.
Is this making sense?
Think about it this way:
If others of your species DON'T like you and don't
give you any attention, you are going to have a hard
time finding a mate... and reproducing.
And if others don't like you, then you aren't going
to have the benefits that come from the group... like
protection, combined effort, etc.
It just so happens that an attractive woman has
an UNCONSCIOUS (but VERY accurate) indicator of whether
or not "the group" likes and approves of her...
It's the amount of ATTENTION she gets.
If a woman is getting a lot of attention, it keeps
her feeling "OK". She knows, at a deep, primal level
that she's accepted by the group... and that she's
going to stay healthy, and have a good chance of mating
with a "top male".
But this particular concept has a DARK SIDE to
it (don't they all?).
Just like anything else that triggers feelings/emotions
(very addictive chemicals), attention and approval
can lead to a literal ADDICTION.
It's like money, fame, power... all the famous
ones... YOU CAN'T GET ENOUGH.
And here's another VERY interesting point:
If you're a beautiful woman who is always getting
attention and approval from men, and you meet a man
who DOESN'T give you that attention and approval,
it has an INSTANT and POWERFUL impact.
Further, if the man you're interacting with actively
AVOIDS giving you attention... and gives you DISAPPROVAL,
it can have the effect of instantly SCRAMBLING YOUR
SYSTEMS.
Again, attractive women don't meet a lot of guys
that could care less about her beauty... and, instead,
see it as a "cover up" for some "hidden" thing...
Which leads me to the "secret" I mentioned earlier...
If you want to learn how to ATTRACT these "unusually
beautiful" women, then you need to get a clue about
what creates the idea in her mind that YOU are one
of the most "desirable" men.
And how can you do that?
1. Become rich and famous.
2. Get plastic surgery to look like Brad Pitt.
3. Trigger ATTRACTION inside of her.
Here's the interesting thing about triggering ATTRACTION:
When you do it, she can't CONTROL it.
If a woman starts feeling ATTRACTION for you, I'll
guarantee you that she didn't "think about it and
decide to feel it".
And I guarantee you that she can't CHANGE IT by
THINKING ABOUT IT.
And guess what one of the BEST ways is to TRIGGER
this "automatic and unconscious" physical and emotional
response called attraction IS?
Here's a hint:
It has something to do with these two concepts
we've been talking about... ATTENTION and APPROVAL.
If you're interacting with an unusually attractive
woman, it's VERY important that you don't communicate
to her that you are "overwhelmed by her beauty"...
or that you can't control yourself.
Further, if you actively control the amount of
attention that you give her... and you don't show
her "approval" too quickly (and even show her some
DISAPPROVAL)... you'll often create a POWERFUL interest
inside of her.
Why is this?
Well, think about it for a minute.
You're the hot woman walking into the "sausage
party".
For the first two hours, you keep having guys walk
up to you and say "you're really hot" and "can I get
you a drink?".
Every guy that comes within ten feet of you can't
stop looking at you, and the ones that talk to you
make it clear that they would be willing to do anything
for you...
And then you meet a guy that isn't like any of
these other guys AT ALL.
He's clearly not impressed with your beauty, and
he's even busting your balls...
You can't tell if he likes you or not, and you
feel CHALLENGED by him.
How are you going to respond?
Let's add another element...
For some reason you can't explain, you're starting
to feel a GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for him.
NOW what do you?
That's right: You give him all of YOUR attention
and approval... hoping that he will give YOU some
in return.
In other words, you switch from the one being pursued
to the one DOING the pursuing.
And so the question is... HOW?
How do you create this situation, and communicate
these things to an attractive woman?
How do you do it in such a way that it creates
ATTRACTION... and gets her to start pursing YOU?
I've given you a lot of good ideas here.
They will get you started.
But if you'd REALLY like to learn how to take control
of "attention and approval", and turn them into TOOLS
that you can use to attract those "unusually beautiful"
women, then I'd like to recommend that you invest
in my new Cocky Comedy CD/DVD program.
It has taken me many years of time, effort, and
energy to really "get" how to use a "personality based
approach" to attract beautiful women.
If you've been reading these newsletters for any
length of time, then you understand just how important
the "Cocky & Funny" technique is for attracting women.
You may have even used it, and found that it gets
a VERY different kind of response from women than
"normal conversation".
Well, in this program, I and some amazing guest
speakers will teach you the foundations of Cocky Comedy...
and then we'll teach you literally HUNDREDS of different
ways to use it... with individual scripts and lines...
And we'll teach you how to weave it all together
into conversations in ANY situation.
This program is not only comprehensive, but it's
COMPLETELY different from anything else available
anywhere.
It's a concept that I've pioneered, and it's only
available here.
I really encourage you to go here and watch the
video clips of the program (you'll get a lot from
just watching the samples):
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/CockyComedy/
And if you haven't taken the time to go and download
my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need
to do that immediately. You can download it right
now, and be reading it in literally MINUTES. It will
teach you a TON about how to control yourself and
your interactions with women in a way that triggers
ATTRACTION... go download it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/eBook/
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
....don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2005 David DeAngelo Communications
Inc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Dating
and David DeAngelo are trademarks of David
DeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all of
the following by accepting and reading this: You
understand this to be an expression of opinions
and not professional advice. It is only to be
used for personal entertainment purposes. You are
solely responsible for the use of the ideas,
concepts, and content and hold David DeAngelo
Communications Inc. and all members and affiliates
harmless in any event or claim. If you are under
the age of 18, please go to the link at the end
of this e-letter to stop receiving it or send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard HughesPkwy, 5th Floor
Las Vegas, NV 89109.
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