Examples Of Approaching Women + Being Cocky & Funny


***QUESTION***

Dear Dave,

I bought your book and study it very closely, needless
to say Like all your other customers I've been experiencing
far more then double my normal dating. But now I've
got serious problem that YOUR BOOK DOES NOT TOUCH
ON WHATSOEVER. What I need to know is how do I turn
then away after they start getting obsessed. I'm now
dating my boss' daughter and cannot break her little
heart and she (9.5) is completely into me. With her
I'm always cocky\funny and she is obsessed with trying
to make me nice, always trying to get me to hug her
or make me say something nice. Don't get me wrong I
do say nice things but I make it tough for her just
like you said. Anyway, I feel that if I start acting
like a wuss now (which I cannot do naturally anymore
or I get disgusted with myself) she still won't leave
me. Is it possible to find another way to shutdown
her attraction response without hurting her feelings
and without me looking like a complete wuss????

Your apprentice.

ML Canada

P.S I'm saving up for those CD's, I heard the samples
on the net that was some deep stuff.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yea, I feel your pain. You poor, poor dear.

You probably should have been thinking about this
before you put the Double Your Dating WHAMMY on her,
man.

If you want a girl to fall in love with you, do all
the things I teach, PLUS talk to her or see her every
day.

If you DON'T want her to fall in love with you, but
instead just want to keep things rather casual and
just have fun, then only call her a couple of times
a week, and only see her once a week (maybe twice on
occasion).

Seeing a woman too much leads to the love feelings,
so remember that next time, Mr. Smooth.

Maybe I should write a book called "Half Your Dating"
for guys like you. I'll think about it.


***QUESTION***

Dear Dave:

First and foremost I love the free news letter.
Very insightful to say the least. It has help me
regain some lost confidence after a recent break up.
The success stories give me hope. Like one of your
last subscribers I also have been addicted to chivalry
and being the nicest guy any woman has ever meet.
I have had much success with this approach, but sooner
or later I get cast into the friendship zone. It happen
once again to me and I am done with it. No more Mr.
Nice guy. C&F all the way from this point out. With
respect to my break up she is still wallowing in and
out of the relationship. Started being C&F and she
appears to like it. No more wuss ass sh** for me!!!!!
Get a lot of laughs from her now. I am playing the
wait and see game. She even called me up and said
lets get back together. What do I do? please I need
help now.

Thank you
JP Long Island New York


>>>MY COMMENTS:

What do you do?

WHAT DO YOU DO?

You learn how to stop acting like a WUSSY, you actually
STOP acting like a wuss, your girlfriend starts to
really dig you again, and you ask me what to do?

Do whatever you want to do, genius. You're back in
control now! Just don't turn back into a Wuss Bag,
OK?

If you really like this girl, then start dating her
again.

Just remember that if you start acting like a girly-man
again, things will probably get bad again.



***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***

Dave,

Gotta tell you that you're right on the mark. I'm
a straight female and I read some of your other advice
that was passed on to me by some friends with a commentary
that they thought you were totally off-base.

Gotta tell ya that there is nothing more impressive
than a confident and funny man.

I swear I must have run into one of your trainees
- on e-mail he was cocky as can be - and funny! Went
out with him once - thought I might date him again
- until he called - every day - twice with sort of
pleading messages....not a chance!

Dave, you're the man! Can I have your number?

C.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for the validation.

And by the way, if that guy started calling you twice
a day, then he wasn't one of mine!

I'd verbally bitch slap him ten ways from Sunday if
he told me such a story! lol...

In any event, I'd give you my number, but I'm VERY,
VERY selective. Send over some pictures and we'll
talk about it.


***COMMENT***

Hey I just want to give Double your Dating 5 stars
for the excellent writing and research put into it.
I have read just as many books as David on the same
subjects but I have not put all into practice. David
you hit it right on the dot of what one needs to do
in order to reach the ultimate outcome. 1 million
thumbs up and now it is time to implement. Hey put
this in there for future reference for everyone CARPE
DIEM - JUST DO IT TEMNET NOSCE - KNOW THY SELF Two
maxims one needs in order to accomplish the accomplishable
or mission impossible.

Thanks
A


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Thanks for the testimonial.

By the way "Carpe Diem" translates into "Seize The
Day", and while you have the translation correct on
the second, it's actually spelled "Temet Nosce". You
just gotta love the internet for checking up on things
like this...

I'm not sure that it's polite to correct someone who
has just given you a compliment, but hey, I'm not
always polite.

Thanks again.


***QUESTION***

Dave,

If it's possible to say this without sounding ***,
I LOVE YOU MAN!

I've been getting your letters for quite a while,
and I was always kinda skeptical about the stuff you
were suggesting because it sounded to good to be true.
So I decided to test it out for myself.

Being shy I tried some of the stuff from the online
personals e-mail you sent, and man does it work! I
sent out 5 messages, and less than 24 hours later
I've received 3 replies, 2 of which want to meet me
already. This stuff is amazing!

I do have a question though about the one that didn't
want to meet right away. She said she's a little nervous
about meeting people off the net until she really
knows them well. How can I bust her (and girls like
her) balls about this? I know that another C+F message
would change her mind in a hurry.

To everyone out there... BUY THIS MAN'S BOOK!!! HE
IS THE JEDI MACKING MASTER.!

Your humble Padawan

J.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

First of all, NO it's not possible to tell me "I LOVE
YOU MAN" without sounding at least a little ***.

Second, congratulations on actually taking action
and getting some results.

Third, as for the girl who is a "little nervous" about
meeting people off the net until she really knows
them, just email her and say...

"OK, why don't we hook up in Vegas and get married,
this way we'll know each other well enough for you
to want to meet me.

Or, we could just get together in a public place in
the middle of the day in broad daylight with a hundred
people around and talk over a cup of tea.

I personally like the Vegas idea..."

...or something equally funny. Then get her phone
number and call her up. This has a soothing effect
in these types of situations.

Make sure when you talk to her to say things like
"Let's meet for a cup of tea for 20 minutes... this
way if you're really freaky I can escape with minimal
time wasted."

This kind of thing is funny, and puts the idea in
her head that YOU'RE the one who's picky and selective.

Great job!


***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I had downloaded your e-book and had been for months
i start practicing what you had taught.

Phone numbers start rolling in by the dozen and every
day i got soo many girls calling me for dates that
my phone nearly explode of miss calls.

Now, i got to the stage where this girl got physical
with me and i use your bridge tactic and got the kiss
then went to the petting stage... Then she ask me
whether i am doing all this for sex... I didn't answer
her and played the lay back tactic and say i wanted
to sleep. She wake me up a few times to force me to
answer her and i say nothing... and tell her that
if she can't make up her mind she can leave. In the
end she left.

Now. the question is . What should i answer her? if
she ask the million dollar question (AM i doing it
all for sex)?

R.
Part of South East Asia
Conservative Region


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Interesting question.

I'll tell you what... there's a lot of power in delivering
the truth in a brutal way.

I would probably answer something like:

"No, I was thinking that since we were kissing passionately
and feeling each other's bodies that this was probably
going to lead to pure friendship."

If she pushed the issue and asked something like "Do
you just want sex or do you want to have a relationship?"
I'd probably answer:

"You're right. Let's just go get married tonight..."

The point is that by using a very direct, sarcastic,
Cocky & Funny attitude, you can address the issue
and basically say "Look, it's obvious that we both
want to have sex, and it's OK if we do. It doesn't
have to mean anything in particular, and if things
work out between us, then they do."

As you know, I don't like the idea of being dishonest
or misleading people. But in this case it might be
a good idea to address the situation and her comments
from a different perspective.


***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

I am living proof that a guy cannot get girls based
on looks alone. A few weeks ago, my buddy took me
to a keg party when I knew absolutley no one. I noticed
a very attractive girl checking me out, and later
one of her friends introduced me to her, and she was
obviously nervous and interested. So I decided to
keep my sights on her for the night. At first she
would offer to go get me another beer, she would sit
on my lap, etc. and I totally blew it. I acted who
you would describe "wussy". I complimented her way
too much, thinking that this would get me further.
It didn't. By the end of the night, she was not at
all interested in me. I had no idea what I did wrong
until I started getting your newsletters.

A few days ago, I had a blind date with a very cute
girl who had a boyfriend at the time, and wanted something
new. I decided to take your advice and drop the wussy
persona, and go with something new...the cocky/funny
gimmick. I kept it up throughout the night, ribbed
her, teased her, I did slow movements, talked slowly,
paused between sentences, and acted like I owned the
place (we were at a restaurant). When I dropper her
off at her apartment, I walked her to the door, and
she invited me inside! I went in, and we started to
kiss. At first I teased her, not letting her have any,
and that drove her even more wild! She then asked me
to hold on a second, she went to the phone, called
her boyfriend, dumped him, hung up, and then she came
back over to me! I ended up spending the night, and
I'm seeing her again tonight. Thank you Dave! My payment
for your ebook is in the mail right now!

J from Barrie, Ontario, Canada


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Ah, insight from the front lines.

This one insight that you've described will literally
change your success with women forever.

It's hard to "logically" get the concept of how acting
like a WUSSY will drive women away, while acting like
a "masculine man", busting on a woman, teasing her,
playing "hard to get" and other such things can work
so well.

But it does.

Thanks for the story.



***QUESTION***

Dear David,

For starters I just want to say your work is amazing
and I really give you a lot of credit for really figuring
this stuff out and not just trying to sell a magic
cure for losers. Anyway.......I've listened to your
CD series and read your book and I'm actually starting
to figure this stuff out, slowly.

I went over to this girls house I met online (cocky
and funny all the way) and I can tell that she totally
likes me, I haven't closed the deal yet, but this
is not the point of my letter to you. After I left
the girls house, I met a friend of mine for a drink
and realized something about him that has been elusive
to me for many years. He understands this deeper level
of communication that you talk about. I leaned back
and observed him over the course of the evening. All
he did was be himself, but he managed to ATTRACT two
different women in the same night by just being totally
cool and comfortable with himself and treating them
like his "bratty little sister". He is one of my best
friends and I never realized he had this ability because
it's not really what he lives for. It's just a part
of him and he knows exactly when to bring it out. He
dresses funny and is in many respects, kind of "a dork".
But that doesn't matter, he has slept with many girls,
many of them very gorgeous. I could never figure out
what was so special about him that the girls were attracted
to. I brought it up to him later in the night and he
had no idea what I was talking about. He said to me
that he basically just treats women (hot or not) the
way he would anyone else. This may seem simple, but
it really struck me as profound. As for my situation,
I'm currently in a slow learning curve. I seem to be
making gains all the time, but then it seems like I'm
taking one step forward and two steps back. I realized
after tonight that I need a lot of work and need to
constantly REFRAME my inner thoughts because of some
self-esteem issues. I'm on track though. I've made a
commitment to figure this out, no matter what.

Your appreciative and loyal student
C

P.S. I know this was a bit long-winded but one more
question. Is there going to be a L.A. seminar anytime
soon? I really think it would be great to meet you
and some of the other amazing guys from the CD series.
I also need to try and meet some other guys who are
either better than me or at least have the same interests
and goals. I'm really struggling with this issue.
I don't know how to handle this. I need someway to
find other guys studying or using your material..
Ever thought of designing a section of your website
for guys to meet up on? Thanks for listening Dave.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Isn't it amazing when you watch someone who you've
known for years interacting with women... and see
things that you've never seen before?

In my Advanced CD Series (as you know), I spend a
lot of time talking about this deeper level of communication...
and when you know to look for it, and what specifically
to look for, you'll see so many things that you've
never even imagined were there.

It's always mind-blowing to me to see a guy interacting
with a woman in front of a group of people, and seeing
him tease, bust balls, be Cocky & Funny, etc. while
all the others look on, amazed. The woman is obviously
very into the guy who is doing this stuff, but the
magical part is that THE REST OF THE PEOPLE WATCHING
HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S GOING ON. The other men in the
group often think that he's making all kinds of huge
mistakes and that he's being a jerk.

Now you're starting to get it.


***QUESTION***

Hi Dave,

Im using your stuff and it works excellent, im 40
i have a 23 year old who id rate as an 8.5 looks,
8.5 personality and a 9 in the sack. I never call
her, hint that i have other women and treat her like
a hooker in bed, thing is she calls me every day,
fuc** like a rabbit, say she loves me and says she
shouldn't feel this way as she could have a nice guy
who treats her well ;-] but she loves ME.... Now thing
is, im from the uk. in the uk i had lots of action
from women, since i came here, not much at all....in
the uk, i was the quintessential ******* to the birds,
when i came here, i heard from women that they wanted
a nice man, ah..so i acted like one, got no where for
7 years, came across your stuff, put it to use and
got laid FAST, thing is, I did this stuff before in
England..thanks for bringing me back on track...you
the man buddy, you the man....


>>>MY COMMENTS:

I get a lot of emails from guys who say things like
"I used to do this stuff, but I forgot that it worked...
and thanks for reminding me."

In fact, when I ask a lot of guys who are really successful
with women how they learned, they often remember stories
of what they used to do, and techniques that they used
to use that they forgot about.

Of course, when I ask them why they stopped doing
those things that used to work, they usually shake
their heads and say "I don't know. I guess I just forgot
about it".

lol...

I'm glad you're getting your game back.

Best to you.


***COMMENT***

I am not sure what freakin' world that these guys
live on but some of these ludicrous stories that they
are making up are B.S. I do not care how much game
you have some of these stories are should be in the
B.S. hall of shame. Some of these stories I buy, but
the one about the gas station and how she checks his
oil; then waits for him to get done paying for his
gas and walks out with him arm and arm. I have as much
game as the next guy and most of these techniques/tips
I have used or have considered, but in all honesty
try and print "real" stories. I have been "around
the block" and have been very successful with the
ladies, but the whole oil story is "greased".


>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, here's the deal...

Every single one of the emails that I put in my newsletters
is real. I don't make any of this stuff up.

I delete all the names and personal data from all
these emails to protect privacy, but I keep every
email that I get on file to prove that they're all
real, individual emails from real, individual people.

And let me tell you, I've personally seen (as in witnessed
with my own two eyes) AND personally experienced stories
that make the oil checking girl look like an after-school
special, OK?


***COMMENT***

Dave,

I just finished listening to the Audio program
from the recent seminar. Thank you for including SO
MUCH interesting and varied material in there! I loved
it, and its food for thought for both the 'inside
game' and the 'outside game.' I want to read some
of the books you recommended and listen to the whole
thing again, and maybe again. You were serious about
tossing in everything you had, plus the kitchen sink.
So it's a great thing to have in a format that one
can listen to again and again. I am going to try to
distill it into 10 or 20 maxims or catch phrases (just
cause that's how I think best) and if I get that far
I will share it back with you. (Attraction is Not
a Choice, Women can't control attraction if they feel
it and you can't change it if they don't; Cocky and
Funny in equal proportions, Words are only 7%, etc.).
Clearly this 'stuff' is not really about 'getting'
women, but about each of our lives, learning, maximizing,
full(er) potential and becoming who you want to become,
and the women thing is part of it, but the tools are
broader. So I am writing just to thank you for DELIVERING
MORE than promised in your 'ads' for the audio program.
Thanks for going 'full-out'!

(And your ass does look fat in those pants).

MD


>>>MY COMMENTS:

You're welcome. I appreciate the feedback.

I've put so much time into making my CD Audio Program
as complete and understandable as possible, and it's
great to get emails like yours from guys who are enjoying
it and having success.


***QUESTION***

Dave, God, Jesus, My Baby's Daddy,

Here I write once again. I spoke last time of the
incredible success I was having, and here I am once
again after an INCREDIBLE Friday Night. First of
all, TO THE READERS, if you haven't got the CD SERIES
yet, it's good for ME...and good if YOU ARE interested
in joining the priesthood. About seven months ago,
I bought the book... but even then I had a few things
I was struggling with... and the CD Series has changed
everything.

Quick Tips: Works Cited => David DeAngelo

1.) You must go after the "definite major purpose"
that Dave talks about. This is NO quick fix. It take
a LOT of time with reframing, learning techniques,
etc. Don't be like Oprah and "dedicate" yourself
to something (in her case fitness)...only to quit.
If you throw in the towel, you will not get women
and will have to settle with lonely, portly Oprah
look-alikes. WHOOOAHH.

2.) Change must come from within. NO technique will
get you where you want to get. You MUST HAVE the
self-image to make it happen. The best analogy that
I use is this: Take the funniest comedian you know
(Seinfeld, Rock, etc) and repeat one of his jokes
verbatim to your friends. Why is it that he gets the
amount of laughs that he does and YOU don't? Something
else is going on. This applies to everything especially
GIRLS. There's more going on than just pick-up lines.

3.) Body language, voice tone, no nervous ticks, and
eye contact. POWERFUL.

4.) Have Dave father your children, but be CAUTIOUS
folks, he has this "thing" for Brad Pitt...I'm still
wondering about you Dave...lol. If Dave isn't willing
to donate his "seeds," then find some friends who "get
it" and HANG out with them. Please though, offer no
sexual favors.

**Success Story: This happened tonight at a Chili's
in the NY area*** My friend who "gets it" told me
tonight that he didn't agree with getting a girl's
e-mail rather than her number. I said it's better
to get BOTH, but he was still disagreeing. I remembered
the whole "I'd like a female's opinion on something..."
and decided I'd give it a shot.

Setting: A crowded Bar with lots of people eyeing
this set of cute girls. I then, walked up, with everyone
watching me and approached who I thought was the
cutest.

Me: Hi, my friend and I were talking, and we wanted
a female's opinion on something.

Her: OK

Me: I think that when you first approach a girl you
should get her e-mail because it's so hard to reach
people these days. My friend, however, thinks that
phone numbers are better. My question to you is what
do you think?

Her: *Smiling* I like phone number better, it's more
personable (She obviously doesn't know about the e-mail,
phone number technique)

Me: How old are you? (Like I'm qualifying her)

Her: Older than you...

Me: Let me guess your age...48

Her: *Laughing* No

Me: Ummm....46

Her: 23 (I'm 21, so don't let age slow you down)

Me: Listen, nice chatting, but I gotta run. Write
down your phone number.

Her: Ok....**This completely threw me. Her FRIEND
then grabbed a pen out of her purse, handed it to
her, and looked for a napkin to write the number

Me: How cute...you brought a secretary (referring
to her friend)..does she pay you well? Ohh...I see...
she buys you drinks.

**At this point, they were both laughing, she handed
me the phone number, and I of course had to drill her.

Me: Is this the number you actually answer..

Her: Yeah...and then she started to hand it to me.

**Her friend then grabbed it from her***

Her FRIEND: Let me make sure this is the number I
call...umm...yeah this is it

***************************
I'm currently "talking" to five girls, and LIFE is
great. If you don't believe the above story happened,
then you don't get it. Well, Dave, give the whole
fathering children idea a spin, I see it right now...
"Double Your Son's Dating." I think the url is available.

--GJG, NY, 21


>>>MY COMMENTS:

1. You are a freak.

2. I kind of like it.

3. This is some great stuff. It should be read again
by all of those reading this right now.



***COMMENT***

David,

I've just finished listening to the CDs from your
seminar. For the first time in my life (33), I "get
it". I really had no idea how comprehensive it would
be. You've changed my thinking entirely. It's like
all these years I've been living a lie and wondering
why things haven't been working out with women. It
becomes so clear when you see it.

I emailed you about a year ago and you called me a
"wuss". That was a shock for me. No-one has ever said
anything like that to me before. It's hard to admit
now but I was a "wuss" with women. I really hate that
word - but it's perfect for "wusses".

What you've produced is more than a dating program,
it's a system for men on how to live. Thanks.

S.
NZ.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Sometimes we all need a little "tough love".

When I called you a Wuss, that's what I was dealing
out to you.

I'm glad you're finally "getting it" after "all these
years"... I know it took me awhile to figure out all
this stuff for myself.

Now, what I'm about to say might sound a little weird,
but go with me here...

One of the problems I think us guys are facing is
that we don't have good "role models" or good "mature
guy friends" to help us learn how to be better MEN.

I think that most of us grow up, but never learn how
to be MATURE.

One of the qualities that women are intensely attracted
to is MATURITY in men.

If you ask a beautiful young woman what her biggest
frustration is with men her age, she'll almost always
respond with something like "Guys my age are so IMMATURE"
or "Guys my age are just STUPID".

Attractive young women who can have any guy they want
are attracted to a particular set of QUALITIES that
are usually present in MATURE men.

Here's the challenge:

What if you're a regular guy who never had a dad who
was a good role model... who taught you how to be
a strong, confident, attractive man?

What if you've made it to "adulthood", but you still
have tons of baggage from childhood, a bunch of insecurities,
and massive FEAR around women?

What if you want to overcome your "past" and build
a new future for yourself? One that involves success
attracting women in your life?

And I'll tell you something, it's a HUGE challenge.

It might be the BIGGEST challenge single adult men
face today.

I know that I had to face it.

And I know that it sucked, because I couldn't find
an "easy answer" to this stuff.

For me, it took literally YEARS of research, trial-
and-error (mostly error - from which I learned a
lot)... and learning.

nice tips you got here man.... thanx!!! :)