Attraction And How It Works With Women

Our topic this week is ATTRACTION.

Before you read further, I'd like you to take a
minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION means
to you.

By the way, I'm talking about the romantic concept
of ATTRACTION... not gravitational attraction, etc.

If you can, WRITE DOWN exactly what you think the
word ATTRACTION means. The process of writing down
your thoughts helps you to organize them (I recommend
that you also keep a journal of your experiences as
you improve in this area of your life). There are no
right or wrong answers here, so think about it for
a few minutes...

And ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.

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OK, did you do that? Nice.

So what did you come up with?

A lot of guys seem to think that ATTRACTION is
when one person wants what another person has.

Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being
good-looking or otherwise "attractive". In fact, I
think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with "attractive".

When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I think
of it primarily as an EMOTION. It seems to me that
it's more a COMBINATION of powerful emotions that
come together to form a very, very special new SUPER-emotion.

However you think about it, there is a process
that happens that keeps men and women getting together
to have sex...

You are reading this right now, which is a miracle.

Think of the thousands upon thousands of generations
of ancestors that you have had... and think about
the fact that NOT ONE OF THEM DIED A VIRGIN.

And not one of them died in childhood.

And then think about the fact that you beat out
about five hundred MILLION other sperm-racers to get
to the egg first.

You are the result of and represent probably the
most amazing process I have ever heard of.

One of the parts of this process that fascinates
me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get
together with THAT PARTICULAR PERSON at THAT PARTICULAR
TIME.

I know that some people will be upset that I'm
talking about this whole concept in such an analytical,
detached way... women in particular seem to love the
fantasy of two people being "soul mates" and "knowing that
your special someone is out there" and "it just happening".

If you're one of those people, stop reading now!
lol...

After working on this area of my own personal life
for a few years, and trying all kinds of techniques,
it finally dawned on me that ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY
EVERYTHING.

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing
else really matters.

Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion, personal
loss, peer pressure from friends and family... none
of it matters!

On the other hand, if a women DOESN'T feel ATTRACTION
for a man, then nothing else matters in that case
either!

You can't "talk" a woman into feeling ATTRACTION,
any more than you can "talk" a person who hasn't eaten
for three days out of feeling hungry.

I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy you could
learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into it that
way...

But I'll tell you a little secret: Even that isn't
the best way to do things! (I actually know several
people who use this method of hypnotizing women...
and I haven't met one yet who could use this technique
alone to get women... there's ALWAYS something else
going on.)

What I'm trying to say is that one day it hit me
like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY TO
EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN!

If you don't know what it is or how to create it,
you'll wander around trying different techniques...
and probably never land on something that works consistently.

And once I realized this, all kinds of things that
didn't make sense before INSTANTLY made sense to me.

All of a sudden I realized why women dated abusive
jerks... ATTRACTION.

I realized why women dated men who were clearly
using them and cheating on them... ATTRACTION.

And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!

I realized why women pass up guys who are honest,
stable, attractive, and wonderful for losers... ATTRACTION.

Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it really
is). If a woman is under the influence of it, then
she's gone. She'll do anything to get more.

If she's NOT under the influence, then YOU'RE gone.
Nothing you do will matter if she doesn't feel it.

If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10 SUPER
HOT women you see what they think of this. Read this
newsletter to them, and watch their reactions. You'll
see.

OK, now that you're heard a little bit more of
my personal perspective, I'd like you to look back
into your life and think about all those situations
with women that made no sense at all...

Think about the women that you treated wonderfully
that passed you up for the jerks... and think about
all the women "friends" you had... the ones who told
you about how mean and inconsiderate their boyfriends
were... while you looked at them thinking "I would
kill my own mother for just one date with you".

Is it all making sense now?

THEY DIDN'T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!

YOU WERE BEING A "NICE GUY" AND PROBABLY A
WUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING
THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND
WORSE YET, THERE WASN'T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO
ABOUT IT!

It's harsh to think about, but it's true. (By the
way, if you don't do something to learn how to make
women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, this is going
to keep happening to you for the rest of your life.)

I have to point one more thing out. As I mentioned
earlier, I think a lot of guys confuse the idea of
being "attractive" with the emotion called ATTRACTION.

You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLE ATTRACTION,
even though you're not what most people would think
of as "attractive". Of course, you have to know how...

The point is that if you're not tall, handsome,
and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women feel
this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.

It's a skill. It's taken me YEARS to be able to
even talk about this stuff in simple terms like this
that make sense, and it's taken me the same time to
figure out how a regular guy like you or me can make
women who we used to think of as "out of our league"
feel ATTRACTION for us.

How, you ask, can we do that?

Well, you've read about the technique called "Cocky
and Funny"... that's a part of it.

But there are several other pieces of the puzzle,
from voice tone and body language, to specific ways
to touch a woman to get her physically turned on, and
everything in between. It's a system, and it all works
together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be
successful with women and dating:

1) The Inner Game

2) The Outer Game

The INNER GAME is all about learning how to THINK
and how to manage your thoughts and emotions. It's
also about understanding how and why attractive women
feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some
men, and not for MOST men.

The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, what to
say and such.

Which is more important?

Well, they're BOTH important.

But what I notice is that most guys want to learn
the OUTER GAME first.

In other words, they want pick up lines, fancy tricks,
and other things.

I can remember when I first started learning this
stuff.

I had this idea in my mind that if I could learn
how to get women to give me their numbers that I'd be
the MAN.

Well, I learned that. I can get just about any
woman's phone number in a few minutes.

But guess what?

Once I learned how to get women's phone numbers,
I ran into a much BIGGER issue... the women usually
flaked out on me, didn't show up, etc.

And the ones that DID show up were difficult.

Nothing happened.

I realized that there had to be more.

And, as it turns out, there is. A LOT more, in
fact.

The REASON that the "Inner Game" is so important
is that attractive women don't judge you on your "pick
up lines".

And just because a woman gives you her phone
number or email address DOES NOT mean that she FEELS
anything inside (like ATTRACTION).

Women don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for a man.

ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own,
for its own reasons.

Attraction Isn't A Choice!

The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for you
is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, and then communicate
in a way that makes it happen.