garnet4david2001
8th July 2006, 08:38
Dating Isn't Fair - Why That Helps You
Post Some Comments Please
This week I want to talk about one of my favorite
topics.
I want to talk about the fact that Dating isn't
a "fair" game, and what to do about it...
First off, I want to mention that LIFE isn't fair.
In case you haven't noticed, almost NOTHING is fair.
Fairness is an idea that people have created.
I think we probably created the concept to torture
ourselves, in fact.
Here are a few ways that life isn't "fair", as
the concept relates to women and dating:
1. Some men are taller, and some are shorter. Women
tend to prefer taller men. How unfair.
2. A very small portion of the women that are alive
are as perfect and beautiful as the women in Playboy
and other magazines, and therefore it's impossible
for every man to have one (or many) women that are
this beautiful. How unfair.
3. Many men go their entire lives without ever having
sex. How unfair.
4. Some men have sex with hundreds or even thousands
of women in their lives. How unfair.
5. Some men know the secrets of creating that magical
emotion called ATTRACTION inside of women, even though
they aren't rich, handsome, tall, etc. and wind up
having their choice of beautiful young women. How
unfair.
The point I'm trying to make is that LIFE ISN'T
FAIR!
Dating isn't fair, either.
Sometimes a woman will respond positively to you,
then the next day she'll act strange.
Sometimes a specific technique will work for you,
and sometimes it won't.
Sometimes you'll feel great and confident inside,
and sometimes you won't.
Now, most people don't like the idea that life
(and dating) aren't fair. They get upset when things
don't go their way, place too much meaning on things
that happen to them and responses they get from women,
and generally act like life should be different.
Of course, this is CRAZY.
The more that I realized this fact... that life
just isn't fair... the more that I realized another
PROFOUND truth:
IT'S GREAT NEWS!
If life were "fair", then you wouldn't be able
to do anything to change your personal success. You'd
get what everyone else was getting.
But the fact is that you CAN change your personal
success in any area you want (including dating).
And the best part of this good news is that you
can not only get better and better, but you can actually
turn the tables around in YOUR FAVOR.
You can improve so much that you are actually at
an ADVANTAGE when it comes to women and dating.
So if the idea that "life isn't fair" is such great
news, then why aren't more people thinking of it this
way?
I personally think that most people aren't WILLING
to get up off of their couch, put the remote down,
and actually invest the time and effort required
to become GREAT at something.
So I'd like you to do something right now.
Take a moment, and make the decision and commitment
to yourself that you're going to TAKE ACTION in the
areas of your life that you want to improve, and you're
going to do what it takes to stay on track until you
get the results that you're looking for.
Dating isn't fair... and that's great news.
Another problem is that a lot of people don't know
where to START. They don't know how to get on the
right track, and where to learn things that actually
work.
When I first decided that I had to learn how to
meet and attract women for myself, I spent probably
a year or two "wandering around" trying to find out
what worked.
I ran in a lot of circles trying things that sounded
like good ideas... but wound up being B.S.
Then, once I finally figured out some of the ideas,
techniques, and skills it was going to take to really
become great at this, it took awhile to really learn
the skills and practice them to the point where I
could use them and have predictable success with them.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I'd like to save you some of the time,
effort, expense and hassle that I put into figuring
out all of my secrets... and I'd like to help you
swing the odds in your favor when it comes to women.
I'd like you to take advantage of the fact that
I've spent literally thousands of hours learning as
much as I possibly could about how to meet and date
attractive women, and I've spent thousands more organizing
this information and putting it together in a way
that you can pick up and use IMMEDIATELY to get better
results with women.
Post Some Comments Please
This week I want to talk about one of my favorite
topics.
I want to talk about the fact that Dating isn't
a "fair" game, and what to do about it...
First off, I want to mention that LIFE isn't fair.
In case you haven't noticed, almost NOTHING is fair.
Fairness is an idea that people have created.
I think we probably created the concept to torture
ourselves, in fact.
Here are a few ways that life isn't "fair", as
the concept relates to women and dating:
1. Some men are taller, and some are shorter. Women
tend to prefer taller men. How unfair.
2. A very small portion of the women that are alive
are as perfect and beautiful as the women in Playboy
and other magazines, and therefore it's impossible
for every man to have one (or many) women that are
this beautiful. How unfair.
3. Many men go their entire lives without ever having
sex. How unfair.
4. Some men have sex with hundreds or even thousands
of women in their lives. How unfair.
5. Some men know the secrets of creating that magical
emotion called ATTRACTION inside of women, even though
they aren't rich, handsome, tall, etc. and wind up
having their choice of beautiful young women. How
unfair.
The point I'm trying to make is that LIFE ISN'T
FAIR!
Dating isn't fair, either.
Sometimes a woman will respond positively to you,
then the next day she'll act strange.
Sometimes a specific technique will work for you,
and sometimes it won't.
Sometimes you'll feel great and confident inside,
and sometimes you won't.
Now, most people don't like the idea that life
(and dating) aren't fair. They get upset when things
don't go their way, place too much meaning on things
that happen to them and responses they get from women,
and generally act like life should be different.
Of course, this is CRAZY.
The more that I realized this fact... that life
just isn't fair... the more that I realized another
PROFOUND truth:
IT'S GREAT NEWS!
If life were "fair", then you wouldn't be able
to do anything to change your personal success. You'd
get what everyone else was getting.
But the fact is that you CAN change your personal
success in any area you want (including dating).
And the best part of this good news is that you
can not only get better and better, but you can actually
turn the tables around in YOUR FAVOR.
You can improve so much that you are actually at
an ADVANTAGE when it comes to women and dating.
So if the idea that "life isn't fair" is such great
news, then why aren't more people thinking of it this
way?
I personally think that most people aren't WILLING
to get up off of their couch, put the remote down,
and actually invest the time and effort required
to become GREAT at something.
So I'd like you to do something right now.
Take a moment, and make the decision and commitment
to yourself that you're going to TAKE ACTION in the
areas of your life that you want to improve, and you're
going to do what it takes to stay on track until you
get the results that you're looking for.
Dating isn't fair... and that's great news.
Another problem is that a lot of people don't know
where to START. They don't know how to get on the
right track, and where to learn things that actually
work.
When I first decided that I had to learn how to
meet and attract women for myself, I spent probably
a year or two "wandering around" trying to find out
what worked.
I ran in a lot of circles trying things that sounded
like good ideas... but wound up being B.S.
Then, once I finally figured out some of the ideas,
techniques, and skills it was going to take to really
become great at this, it took awhile to really learn
the skills and practice them to the point where I
could use them and have predictable success with them.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I'd like to save you some of the time,
effort, expense and hassle that I put into figuring
out all of my secrets... and I'd like to help you
swing the odds in your favor when it comes to women.
I'd like you to take advantage of the fact that
I've spent literally thousands of hours learning as
much as I possibly could about how to meet and date
attractive women, and I've spent thousands more organizing
this information and putting it together in a way
that you can pick up and use IMMEDIATELY to get better
results with women.