How To Create Sexual Tension To Attract Women
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SEXUAL TENSION

Let me ask you a quick question.

It's a question that MOST men do NOT know the answer
to...

It's also a question that most women DO know the
answer to...

The question: "What is SEXUAL TENSION?"

Take a minute and "mentally answer" that question.
Think it over if you have to.

I'm not kidding. Think about it.

What did you come up with?

To most men, the words "Sexual Tension" are a MYSTERY.

They just don't make sense.

Or if they DO make sense, they make sense in a
way that DOESN'T make sense. Make sense?

In other words, some guys think that the words
Sexual Tension mean "negative anxiety about sex"
or something equally unhelpful.

But if you go ask a group of WOMEN what the words
mean, you'll get a MUCH different answer.

Women what Sexual Tension is.

To a woman, Sexual Tension is the feeling that
she feels during those times when she is interacting
with a man that she feels ATTRACTION for... but she
doesn't know exactly what's going to happen.

Maybe she can't tell if he's into her, but the
conversation is so good that something MUST be happening...

Maybe he's making her laugh a little bit "too
much", and she's unable to control her feelings
towards him...

Or maybe it's obvious that he's interested, but
he's so in control of himself and the situation that
he's not blatantly "making a move"... and she's on
the edge of her seat waiting to know what's going to
happen.

These are all possible examples of Sexual Tension.

Now, just because one of these situations is happening
doesn't mean that Sexual Tension is present.

But these are the types of situations where it is
MOST LIKELY to be present.

With that, let me see if I can take you behind
the scenes, and give you a different perspective.

Men and women have some BIG differences when it
comes to ATTRACTION.

Men have their "attraction mechanisms" "triggered"
by much different things than women.

For women, things usually begin with a small spark.

Eye contact for a little too long.

A Cocky & Funny comment.

A teasing remark.

It can be anything.

The point is that SOMETHING SPARKS the ATTRACTION.

Then it GROWS over time.

It doesn't have to be a lot of time, but it does
usually require time.

It might take an evening, or it might take a date
or two... but if a man does all the right things he
can AMPLIFY one these little sparks of attraction
into a powerful emotional feeling for a woman... that
is too much for her to resist.

Of course, as we both know, a man can usually feel
a sexual attraction to a woman INSTANTLY.

I'm sure you've had a woman smile at you and BOY-OY-OY-OY-ING.

SCHWING.

AWWWWW YAYAHHHHH.

What's worse, we totally don't get how things work
for women.

So we tend to do all the WRONG things.

And when we do all the WRONG things, women don't
even get the little sparks that can grow into full-blown
ATTRACTION.


WHY TENSION?

So let's talk about Sexual Tension...

Why "Tension"?

Most people don't like the idea of "tension".

It's uncomfortable.

It usually means confrontation or dealing with
someone who's mad at you or who doesn't like you.

Tension is seen as a NEGATIVE by most people.

And when most men feel ANY type of tension around
a woman, they make a HUGE mistake...

THEY RELEASE THE TENSION.

Because most guys are so caught up in the "tension
is bad" way of thinking, they DESTROY all of the great
Sexual Tension that arises in the situations they
find themselves in with women.

It's a total bummer.

So the first thing I'm going to ask you to do,
for the purposes of understanding this concept, is
to put your ideas of what tension is and how it works
behind you.

Open your mind to a new way of thinking.

Become OK with the idea of CREATING TENSION when
you're around women that you feel an attraction for...
and even AMPLIFYING that tension.

And realize that if you can do this, women will
LOVE you for it.

Women, and especially ATTRACTIVE women who are
approached all the time by loser guys, don't enjoy
dating guys who are boring, predictable, and lame.

They love guys who are unpredictable, mysterious,
and CHALLENGING.

They love guys who keep them guessing what's going
to happen next.

And they love guys who can keep the TENSION BUILDING,
and NOT LET UP.


HOW TO DO IT

So here are a few ideas for "sparking" that initial
tension that I'm talking about...

1) TEASE.

If you want to INSTANTLY change the way a hot,
stuck-up woman is behaving, TEASE HER about something.

Now, not all beautiful women are stuck up.

Duh.

But teasing works PARTICULARLY well when a woman
IS stuck up... lol.

Maybe it's her big purse.

Or her tall shoes.

Or her "runway model" walk.

Whatever.

Just tease her.

Say "Hey, what's with the big purse? You're not
one of those women with a live dog named "Precious"
in there, along with organic vegan high-protein treats
for when she's in the mood to be pampered, are you?"

It doesn't matter.

Just say something to tease her.

Oh, and it's usually better if you can do this
with a STRAIGHT FACE. This creates even MORE tension.

If you MUST smile, make sure it's the "I'm only
smiling because I know that you can't believe how
confident I am that you love me" kind.

2) EYE CONTACT

When a man and a woman make eye contact for the
FIRST TIME, it's USUALLY the man who looks away first.

Men are WUSSIES when it comes to doing things that
say "I'm a strong, confident person".

Looking away when you make eye contact with a woman
is one of those things. BIG TIME.

Instead, if you HOLD the eye contact until SHE
looks away (and you don't fidget or twitch like you've
got some strange bug crawling up your shirt), it will
send a strong signal.

Oh, and it has a good chance of "sparking" this
attraction that we're talking about.

3) ROLL PLAY

Often an opportunity will come up when you're meeting
a woman to instantly shift into a "roll play".

Maybe she mentions that she's getting a new job.
Tell her that you sure hope it pays well, because she's
going to have to support both of you...

And then tell her that you hope she has enough
energy to cook at night after work, because you need
a wife who can bring home the bacon, AND fry it up
in a pan...

Then tell her that something she just said screwed
it all up for you, and that you're probably going
to wind up divorcing her a week after you get married...
and taking half of HER money.

Roll-playing is fun, and if it's done right it
can REALLY spark this tension that we're talking about.

The point is that you have to SPARK it.

YOU must lead the way, and YOU must do something
to create that little moment where things transition
into "we're playing like adults". Women feel this,
and respond to it INSTANTLY.


TURNING UP THE TENSION

Now, once you've sparked this tension and engaged
her into an interesting banter, it's time to DIAL UP
THE TENSION.

That's right, I said CREATE MORE TENSION.

Let's say that you were talking to her about making
a lot of money so she can support you, and she answered
with "Well, I can support you, but you're going to
have to do all the housework, dishes, and take care
of the kids".

Most guys would be thinking to themselves "Cool,
she's having fun with me, I'll say something to make
her like me now".

So they'd say "OK, I can do that" or something
equally dumb-assed.

This is the place to TURN IT UP.

Say "Oh no you don't. I'm the man here. I get to
lay around all day watching T.V., then go out with
my friends when you get home".

Reversing gender stereotypes like this, and teasing
is all kinds of fun.

At this point the woman might open her mouth with
the "Oh no you didn't just say that" look.

Of course, you should look back at her, raise your
eyebrows, and slowly nod your head, as if to imply
"Oh yes, you're going to support me".

This is just one example.

Here are a few more, just so you really "get" what
it is that I'm saying.

1) DON'T take advantage of something.

Let's say that the woman you're talking to is wearing
a sexy outfit. She gets up and walks across the room
to get something. She KNOWS that you're going to be
looking at her.

BUT YOU DON'T.

When she turns around to come back, you're looking
down at your shoes, and commenting about what great
taste you have.

THIS IS SUBTLE, BUT POWERFUL.

Not taking advantage of a look, a touch, a kiss,
etc. when it's available DIALS UP the Sexual Tension.

2) Push her away.

Let's say that you have your first kiss.

PUSH HER AWAY gently just before the kiss "should"
be finished.

Shake your head.

Say "you're trouble".

TENSION BUILDS.

3) End interactions first.

If you're talking to her on the phone, and you're
both enjoying the conversation, say "OK, I've got
things to do. See ya."

This is MAGIC.

Not only are you ending a great conversation when
it was on an UP note, but you're also not trying to
get anything from her.

Most guys cling and stay on the phone forever,
then ask for a date or if they can call later.

DON'T DO IT.

Just get off the phone.

If it's the end of the date, leave just a little
bit too soon.

The point is to create TENSION in the moment.


EVERYDAY SITUATIONS

In just about every situation there is an opportunity
to TURN UP THE TENSION.

When you do this, you create a very special emotion
for women.

It's that combination of her laughing, her not knowing
what's going to come next, and you not acting like
a WUSSY...

It's that special curiosity that is aroused inside
of a woman when she doesn't know what's going to happen...
but she WANTS to know...

It's that magical moment when it's obvious that
most guys would start acting like CLINGY WUSSBAGS,
and you're just leaning back as if you've got all
the time in the world... and you need nothing.

These things spark and amplify Sexual Tension.

And they INSTANTLY communicate to women that you
understand something that most men DON'T.

Now, of course this isn't a simple topic.

There's a lot more to it.

In fact, one of the most important factors in creating
sexual tension is your ability to not act needy...
which has more to do with your self image and overcoming
your insecurities than it does with your "behaviors"
alone.

As you probably know, I believe that it's as important
to work on your "Inner Game" as it is to work on our
"Outer Game".

It's as important to learn how to change how you
think and feel as it is to learn the words and actions.

You must start on the INSIDE, and work your way
OUTSIDE.

You can have the 100 best pick up lines ever created
memorized word-for-word, but if you care too much
what women think of you, then THEY WON'T WORK WORTH
A DAMN.

In fact, almost NOTHING WILL WORK if you don't
have your Inner Game together.

One of the things that really separates my more
advanced training materials from others is that I
spend a LOT of time teaching you how to overcome your
insecurities, improve your self image, see things
from a better angle, and really work through those
"inner" things that are holding you back.