How And Why Women "Test" You
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Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set
up a date and had her say: "Friday night? Sure. Call
me on Friday and we can talk about it..." ?

Or have you ever had a woman ask you if you're "a
player"?

Or have you ever had a woman challenge you about
something ridiculous?

Or have you ever had a woman call you five minutes
before a date and cancel?

Or have you ever had a woman pout and get upset
because she didn't get her way?

Or have you ever asked a woman for her number and
had her say "Why don't you give me your number and
I'll call YOU"?

Well guess what... you were being TESTED.

All of these are examples of common things women
do to "test" men.

At some level, the woman you were dealing with
was testing to see how much control she had in the
relationship... and how STRONG you were.

The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY with
what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually FAIL the
test.

Hey, I never said that women made sense... lol.

I was reading a great book recently called "The
Way Of The Superior Man", and inside he points out
that a woman will often ask a man for something DIRECTLY...
but if he DOES what she asks, she will
be disappointed and ANGRY with him.

Ever been there?

So what's with this testing stuff, anyway?

Well, the answer is fascinating.

Women test men because they need to QUICKLY figure
out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect
a man to just be straight up and honest about his strengths
and weaknesses.

I mean, let's face it... us guys like to talk a
big game, but when it comes to walking the talk, we
often can't BACK IT UP.

Also, beautiful women have a lot of options. They
have their pick of men. And beautiful women prefer
STRONG men. Not physically strong (although this can
be an advantage), but strong in CHARACTER and
PERSONAL IDENTITY.

Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.

So let me ask you... if you were an attractive woman
that was being chased around by 100 guys, how would
YOU go about figuring out which one or ones was the
"real deal" and which were merely FAKING strength and
confidence?

Of course... you'd have to TEST.

But you couldn't test by saying "OK, I'm going to
give you a test now, so get ready".

No no no.

You'd have to use "blind" tests. Tests that would
allow you to see a man's true strengths and weaknesses.
And in fact, you'd want to use tests that ideally DIDN'T
ALLOW HIM TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE TESTING... OR WHAT
YOU HAD DISCOVERED ABOUT HIM WITH THOSE TESTS. This
way, if he turned out to be a was a Wuss Bag, you could
slip away quickly and easily.

This would give you the power. Of course.

And if you did this OFTEN, you'd eventually become
so accustomed to doing it that MANY of the tests would
become UNCONSCIOUS and work their way into your NATURAL,
EVERYDAY way of communicating with men.

Well guess what?

That's what's going on with beautiful women.

Many of the tests that they use with men are actually
OUTSIDE OF THEIR AWARENESS. They test us automatically!

And if you fail one of these tests, there's a good
chance that you won't get another chance.

In this fast-paced world, we humans don't have the
time to spend getting to know people over a few months
or years to figure out whether or not they're the kind
of person that would make a good friend or mate.

We need to know NOW.

So we use shortcuts.

Testing is a shortcut for women.

It lets them discover VERY RAPIDLY whether you have
BALLS, or if you're just another one of the bazillion
Wusses that are trying to get her attention.

I hope you feel what I'm saying.

So next time you're standing in front of a beautiful
woman who you've just asked for her number, and she
says "Why don't you just give me yours and I'll call
YOU..." try CHUCKLING out loud, and saying:

"Cummon. Don't give me that old line. Write your number
down, and I'll only call you 25 times a day until you
wind up having to change it, because I have nothing
better to do with my time than call someone who doesn't
want to hear from me."

Then hand her a pen, point to the paper, and look
her in the eye expectantly.

Love it.

Now, obviously there's a lot more to this issue
of TESTING. There's a lot more going on than meets
the eye.

There are all kinds of subtle cues and body language
that women read to decide just what kind of man you
are...and these cues also trigger ATTRACTION (or the
opposite).