How To "Get Physical" With A Woman
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MOST MEN ARE DEATHLY AFRAID...

Most men don't know the FIRST THING about how to
take things to a "physical" level with a woman.

Here's why:

Let's say you've been out on a date with a woman,
and you're now back at your place, having an enjoyable
conversation.

You look over at her.

She looks back at you.

You want to kiss her.

She KNOWS that you want to kiss her.

You know that she is the one with all the power.

If you try to kiss her, and she pulls away, she
might reject you forever.

If you DON'T try to kiss her, maybe it will happen
later, or maybe she'll even kiss you...

The risk of being rejected FOREVER is so powerful
and creates such fear that you decide to just "walk
away" from the situation and hope something happens
later.

Or let's say that you've been out with a woman
a few times, and you have just kissed her for the
first time.

You know that she's enjoying it.

She knows that you want her.

You'd REALLY like to do more, but you're afraid
that if you try, you'll be seen as "moving too fast",
or even worse... a "pushy pervert".

You hate the idea of being rejected after you've
invested all that time and come so far...

So you decide to stop and hope that maybe things
will "heat back up" later.


WE'VE ALL BEEN THERE

If you really stop and think about it, the reason
why you run into problems in situations like these
is that:

1) You don't understand exactly what turns women on.

2) You are afraid of rejection.

3) You don't know what SHE'S thinking, so you hesitate.

I honestly believe that most men CAUSE their own
problems and resistance when it comes to "getting
physical" with a woman.

Yes, you read that right... MEN are the ones who
CAUSE the problems.

It's not the woman!

It's the fact that you don't understand the situation,
what's REALLY going on, and how to proceed.


WHAT WOMEN WANT... BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

Here's a little secret that most women will NEVER
share with you...

THEY KNOW WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND.

Women can tell what you're thinking!

If you want to kiss her, but you're nervous about
it, SHE KNOWS.

If you're kissing her and want to do more... SHE
KNOWS.

Here's the KICKER:

If you're afraid of her rejecting you, SHE KNOWS.

Really.

Women are approximately TEN TIMES as good at men
when it comes to reading and interpreting subtle body
language, and THEY KNOW WHAT WE'RE THINKING.

Let me correct myself.

They know what MOST men are thinking.

If you understand the dynamics of how and why women
become sexually aroused, then EVERYTHING CHANGES.

Let's talk a little bit about the topics of RESISTANCE
and REJECTION.

Here's an interesting thought:

In their book "Sexual Interactions", Albert and
Elizabeth Allgeier mention that in one study almost
40% of women reported refusing sexual intercourse
when they actually WANTED it. They call this "The
token no".

What's going on here?

By the way, before I discuss this, I want to point
out that this DOESN'T mean that a woman wants a man
to force himself on her. NEVER force a woman to do
anything.

Women enjoy ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation leads to sexual arousal.

Write that down.

On your forehead.

You need to remember that women like the idea of
WANTING and EXPECTING what's going to happen.

The reason why a lot of women say that they don't
want to sleep with men even when they do is because
the man doesn't GET IT.

Men act like they would enjoy it if a woman just
took off her clothes and said "let's do it".

Women act like they want a man to chase them around
all night... and then MAYBE do it. Maybe.

So if you want her to feel more turned on, and
to get less "resistance", then USE ANTICIPATION.

I have a technique that I teach that's called "Two
steps forward, one step back".

This is a way to INCREASE a woman's sexual arousal
and AMPLIFY the ATTRACTION that's already present
in the situation.

Here's how it works:

Let's say that you're talking to a woman at your
place, and you start holding her hand.

After a few minutes, take your hand back and STOP.

Lean back.

Keep talking.

A few minutes later, reach over and take her hand
again... and keep talking.

Then, lean over and kiss her (use "The Kiss Test",
as described at my website and in Double Your Dating).

After you've kissed her, STOP.

Lean back again.

Keep talking.

A few minutes later, reach over and kiss her again.

This time, kiss her for a little longer.

Kiss her a little deeper.

Then stop.

Lean back.

Smile.

ARE YOU WITH ME?

When you use this technique, you will be absolutely
STUNNED at the results.

First of all, it completely changes the situation.

Instead of a woman RESISTING you, she'll be much
more likely to try to get you to DO MORE.

She'll very likely be confused.

She'll be thinking to herself "What's going on
here? Most guys try to push themselves on me, or they
don't do anything at all. This guy seems like he's
so in control of himself. And I keep getting more
turned on. Maybe I should tell him that we're not
going to sleep together tonight. But this is so great..."

And the best part of this technique is that IT'S
WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO DO!

Of course, they'd never TELL you this. And even
if a woman COULD explain it, she wouldn't WANT to
tell you. Women want men who ALREADY GET IT.

I want to mention a couple of more important things.

First, if you want to even GET to the point where
it's time to hold a woman's hand, kiss her, and get
even more physical, then you MUST understand how ATTRACTION
works, and how to make women feel that powerful emotion.

If you don't, then knowing all the fancy techniques
in the world won't help you.

It's also VERY useful to understand what to do
AFTER you've kissed a woman... the details of how
to do OTHER, more INTIMATE things.