How To Kiss A Woman

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***QUESTION***

First of all, lets get things straight. I don't like
you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with women
disgusts me, and the way you have it down to a science
so well that you even make ME laugh sometimes with
your smartassed comments to the lamers who write you
vexes me. But it intrigues me as well. Your stuff
works. So I use it. Doesn't mean I like you. Just
means I like your "tools."

Anyway, the problem I'm having lately is I meet and
flirt with a lot of women using c&f, but when it
comes time for things to get a little physical, they
tell me they're waiting for marriage to do all that!
WtF?! Is there a way around this kind of a "defense"
that women use on me oh so often? (Besides dumping
their celibate asses.)

Name: D
Location: Bufffalo, New York.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your challenges
with women stem from the dark cloud around your SOUL!

....ahem.

Dude, I can tell that you're attempting to be funny
here, but it also sounds to me like you've got some
anger issues that might need professional attention.

By the way, the way to "get around" the "I'm waiting
for marriage" defense is to stop acting like a bitter
WUSSY.

If women consistently tell you "I'm waiting for marriage
before I get physical", it can only mean one of two
things:

1) You're shopping for women at the convent.

2) You're CAUSING the resistance you're getting.

Most guys don't realize this, but THEY are the ones
who cause women to resist and make excuses.

Really.

And by the way, don't EVER say that you don't like
me, but you like my TOOL again. That's not cool.



***QUESTION***

Dave- you da man! I just had a great experience
that I feel merits an email to you. There's a very
upscale restaurant/bar at which you can even buy
cigars from their humidor. There's a piano player
that plays jazzy tunes, and the place is pretty expensive,
quiet, with the aura of big money patrons. (I love
cigars and jazz, which is why I wanted to go there
so badly.)

So, as I've always wanted to go there, and I finally
mustered the courage to put on my best suit and tie
(complete with cufflinks), so I'd look the part, despite
the fact that I'm not rich like the other patrons.
The women there are usually in groups, and they wreak
of old money.

I sat alone and nursed a martini for about 30 minutes,
while I scoped out the babes. I zeroed in on a tall,
stunningly gorgeous blond. (I have a weakness for tall
blonds.) I used the "Can I borrow her for a minute?"
trick, and it worked like a charm! Then I teased her
for having friends who would just let her go off with
a total stranger. Then I mixed a lot of listening with
a bit of c/f once she joined me at my table.

She told me she was hungry, so I told her I was getting
hungry, too, and that I was about to become nasty
if I didn't get something to eat soon. Then I said,
"You're not very attractive, but since I do happen
to like that dress on you, I'll be a sport and let
you buy me dinner just this once." I couldn't believe
I said that!!!! I was a little scared that she'd
get pissed off and leave.

She ended up buying me an expensive dinner!!! Plus
I got her phone number and email. I told her I do
a lot of traveling (which I don't), but that I'd try
to remember to call her next time I was in town. She
then asked me for my number and email!

I am still in shock. This girl looks like a supermodel,
plus she's rich! I really want to call her or email
her, but I'm deliberately waiting, in order to give
her the gift of missing me. And though it's only
been a day since it happened, I still think she'll
contact me first. Should I wait for her to contact
me or should I contact her?

J


>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... you're cracking me up over here.

While I don't recommend lying to women, I still find
your story pretty funny.

Thanks for the story, and for affirming that these
concepts we're talking about appeal universally to
women... rich and poor alike.



***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

Your book and newsletters are great and I TRULY appreciate
them, so I won't waste time telling you about that.
I had a success story tonight that I just had to tell
you about even though it's 4 in the morning, I'm just
that pumped. I just left a fraternity party of mine,
and there was this chick there that has been hanging
around the house and with some of the other guys for
a while (tall, thin, blonde hair, bout an 8.5). She
was at the apartment we were partying at, and she sits
down next to me no the couch. I introduce her and have
a little small talk, and she makes a comment that one
of the guys told her that I am a photographer (I work
for a local newspaper full time) and that she wanted
me to take some pictures of her so that she can get
into modeling. I say, "So, you want to be a parts
model? You have some sexy toes? (you're good Dave).
She says, "What, you don't think I'm hot?" I just
kind of shrug that one off. She acts shocked and I
just go on. Basically, all night I busted on her,
looks and everything, ach she would act shocked at
my comments but I could tell she liked it (she's 5'11,
so when I leave to go to the bathroom or whatever I
tell her, "You're like 6'5, so if anybody takes my
seat you put them in a choke hold." Needless to say
my seat never got taken when I told her). I couldn't
believe it Dave, I would never have done this stuff
before. She even made a comment that I was such an
a**hole and none of the guys had ever treated her like
this. I would just smile and say "I know." She was
eating it up. I even told her at one point to go get
ME another beer. I was shocked when she said yes. Later
I gave her a ride back to her dorm, and on the way
home she was talking about how she needs to quit hitting
on guys, and told me about a game she plays at parties
with her friends where they bet if they can get a guy
to make out with them in a certain amount of time. I
tell her I wouldn't, I'm not that easy. She's like,
"Not even me?" And I go on with the not easy part and
she would at least have to buy me dinner. Long story
short I get her number and she tells me to call her
like 3 times. Right before she gets out of the car
I say, "Can I kiss you?" She says yes, and I say, "Ok,
I'll make sure to do that,"... She says oh right and
leans in to kiss ME. I couldn't believe it Dave. I am
on a high that no drug could ever give, and I have you
to thank for it. This is probably too long, but I had
to tell you.

Thanks a million.
K. in Texas


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, what else is there to say?

There's really nothing like experiencing this stuff
in real life.

The first few times that you really apply the material
and get women feeling ATTRACTION for you are amazing.

You wonder why the hell you didn't figure it all out
before.

Great job. You're the man. Thanks for the story!



***COMMENT***

Hi Dave,

First off, not to sound like everyone else, but your
stuff rocks!!! With that being said I'd like to offer
a comment on J.M. from New Hampshire's predicament.

J.M. said "What's the best way to deal with a girl
coming out and saying "oh, you're so cute/funny/etc..."?
Should I ignore it and keep the c/f going? Should
I address it in a cocky way?"

A couple of my favorite lines to use:

She: Your so cute.
Me: If you want cute buy a puppy.

She: Your so funny.
Me: Yeah, but looks aren't everything.

It works great to down play her comments. Make fun
of yourself, but don't draw too much attention. Act
disinterested in her comments and move on with the
conversation. Let's her know you really are comfortable
in your skin and she should really be closer to
that skin!!

Hittin Heavy in Iowa, (with no sheep, LOL)
S.W.


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Man, I don't even like sheep JOKES anymore.

You know, what I'm wondering is why they sell those
blow-up sheep DOLLS in the adult stores. What's the
deal? Are they for guys that don't even have enough
game to pick up a SHEEP?

OK, whatever.

These are great comebacks.

I personally don't use very much humor that makes
fun of myself early on... but your stuff is great.

Thanks for the comments.



***QUESTION***

Whats wrong with this letter. She works at Burger
King and I handed it to her. She didnt talk to me
anymore.

[The Letter]:

C,

I like you!

You have an electrifying gracious attitude at Burger
King. You are leaving soon so lets chat on the phone.
Don't judge me by my lack of conversation at the
restaurant. I get a mental block at times. Let me
know if your interested. OK....

Thank you


>>>MY COMMENTS:

What's wrong with this letter?

Well, other than the fact that it's the worst thing
I've ever seen, nothing really.

"You have an electrifying and gracious attitude at
Burger King..."?!

Say what?

Dude, why didn't you just say "I am a stalker, and
every night when I go to sleep I can see you flipping
Whoppers"?

You need the kind of help that only my ADVANCED DATING
TECHNIQUES program can give. Do not pass go, do not
collect your two hundred dollars. Go IMMEDIATELY here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/AdvancedSeries/

....before it's too late.



***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I love reading your newsletters every time you mail
them out, and I am going to buy your e-book as soon
as I get back from my vacation in New York. While
I'm out there though, I'd like to know one thing.
I like the newsletters you mail out that deal with
getting a girls number for the first time. But I
can't get myself to get started even to that point.
Yes, I know I'm really afraid of rejection and that
makes me make up excuses as to why I won't come up
to a girl.

I completely feel the way you say that I should come
up to a girl, talk to her for a minute, then say something
like "I have to get back to work now," leave and then
turn back and say "Hey, do you have e-mail?" But my
question is this: How do I get a girls attention to
begin with? In other words, what do I say to her
so that she will want to talk to me for that minute
you talk about? I don't feel like saying "Excuse me,
Hi... my name is ..., do you work around here?" would
be the best solution for this. Do you?

Thanks for the newsletters because they are slowly
but surely making me grow some balls enough to get
up and go talk to a girl!

CAT, San Francisco, CA


>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it's funny...

You're asking a question that every guy in the world
wants to know the answer to.

It's a simple answer... and it's a DAMN complex answer
at the same time.

One of the KEYS to approaching women you don't know
is being able to do it as comfortably and naturally
as you call your mom.

If you get nervous, shaky, and freaked out the woman
will pick up on this... and it will make HER nervous.

You can walk up to a woman and say "Hi, I don't have
time to talk, but if you're single I'd really like
to talk to you sometime... do you have email?"...
and if you do it in a calm, comfortable way you can
get a HIGH percentage of women to give you their info
right there on the spot with no conversation needed.

On the other hand, if you're freaked out, nervous,
and acting like you're all jacked up on speed while
driving a getaway car, it doesn't matter WHAT you
say.

Experts estimate that approximately 7% of your communication
is the words you use, and 93% is your voice tone and
body language.

In other words, the WORDS aren't very important at
all.

So how do you get the voice tone and body language
under control... and more importantly, your EMOTIONS?

Well, this is a simple and complex problem as well.

I have personally found that understanding exactly
how and why women feel sexual attraction for men
has changed the way I interact with women DRAMATICALLY.

If you DON'T understand this important process, you're
just going to be "faking" it. If you DO understand
it, you're going to be COMMUNICATING differently,
and communicating with a different PART of the woman.

Keep educating yourself. My eBook and CD/DVD program
will give you an amazing education in this area, and
can help transform your fear and hesitation into ACTION.



***QUESTION***

David,

I've got to say that your emails have been a great
help and your CD series is unstoppable! In both your
emails and CD's you mention movie characters to study
and model yourself after. Could write up a list of
movies that you think are worth watching for the Cocky
& Funny attitude.

Thanks Dave.

B. D.
Chicago


>>>MY COMMENTS:

Some of my favorite scenes:

-Indiana Jones And The Temple Of Doom... the after-dinner
scene when they're in the bedroom.

-Top Gun... when he follows her into the bathroom.

-The newest James Bond flick... basically everything.

-Gone With The Wind... the scene right after Scarlet
and Ashley are alone in that library type room toward
the beginning... when she throws the vase and then
Rhett Butler stands up from behind the couch and starts
chatting with her.

-Also, listen to how Howard Stern and David Letterman
mess with people CONSTANTLY. Great stuff.


***QUESTION***

Dear David,

Amazing job with your e-book "Double your Dating",
I finally understand why most of the girls I've been
with left me after less than a month. I had the natural
humor, but it was mostly meant for goofing off instead
of being cocky.

My question is about kissing. From my dates, in the
second or third date, I would kiss the girl using
your tips (e.g. the hair) but I am not really sure
I am getting a good *job* into kissing a girl. Its
not like I can leave a comment box after the date...
do you have any suggestions on how to make a good
and memorable kiss? You did say that a first kiss
with a girl is pretty much like first impressions ;)

- From one of your many loyal fans


>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

I'm going to share a little secret with you.

It's a secret that I talk about all the time... in
my newsletters... my book... my seminars... my Advanced
Program.

The secret is ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation is such an important concept when it
comes to "getting physical" with a woman.

I believe that it's important to incorporate it into
every part of your interactions with a woman... really.

Now, if you really don't know how to kiss a woman,
then I have a recommendation:

START SLOW, THEN MIRROR WHAT SHE DOES.

Here's how to mix this strategy with ANTICIPATION.

Let's say that you decide it's time to kiss her. You
use the "Kiss Test", and she's enjoying it... so you
lean over to kiss her.

Just as you start to kiss her... when you first feel
your lips touching hers... stop right there. Brush
your lips back and forth on hers a little bit... then
pull away without actually kissing her.

Then smile at her.

You'll probably be sitting there thinking "Why the
hell didn't I just kiss her?"

She'll probably be sitting there tingling all over,
and feeling like she wants to jump on you.

Next, lean back. Talk a little more.

A few minutes later, touch her hair again.

Then lean over to kiss her again. This time, go VERY
slowly... gently press your lips against hers. Hold
them there for a moment, and feel how she responds.

If she kisses you the same way, then just stop, lean
back, and relax again for a few minutes.

The next time you kiss her, open your mouth just a
little bit, and see if she does the same.

Do this a couple of times.

At some point, she will probably start "escalating"
the kisses, because the anticipation is just too much
for her.

At this point, stop her. Push her away, and smile.

MORE ANTICIPATION.

Just keep mirroring how she's kissing you as things
get more and more intense. This is a great way to
"learn" how to kiss... and she'll enjoy it, because
you'll be doing exactly what she likes!

By the way, if you'd like to learn how to both SPARK
and BUILD that magical thing that women call "chemistry"
and "sexual tension", then it's important that you
learn and MASTER the technique that I call "Cocky
Comedy".

Before you can get into building PHYSICAL anticipation
and taking things to a PHYSICAL level, you must trigger
ATTRACTION inside of her...

And Cocky Comedy is the one single technique that
accomplishes this for you... and the best part is
that you can do it with your COMMUNICATION ALONE.

No good looks, no buying dinners, and no giving lavish
gifts required (in fact, these things can actually
work against you).

And what's the best way to learn Cocky Comedy?

It's simple: Get yourself a copy of my new Cocky Comedy
CD/DVD program.

Listen as I and my guest teachers take you "behind
the scenes"... and teach you the magic technique that
guys who are NATURALLY good with women use to create
ATTRACTION.

It took me a massive amount of time and effort to
even DISCOVER this technique... and then years to
MASTER it...

And you can learn dozens and dozens of sure-fire lines
and comebacks with just a few hours of fun listening.

In fact, check out this email that I got from a guy
who just got this program:


"Dear Double D,

Do you remember when you said that some guys "get
it" in a week and others in a year or more? Well I
was one of the "Year or More". Well two years, three
months, and 24 hours later I finally "get it" and
it happened right when I was about to give up entirely.

Well let me give a little background on me. I was
that 1 in every 3 guys that are below average looking,
suffer from morbid obesity, 21, generosity is a good
thing, mom's advice for picking up women is the best,
and always have a date every year or so. Now I AM
that 1 in every three guys that are below average
looking, 21, and suffer from morbid obesity. I did
exactly what you told me not to do. I just jumped
in head first into the Advanced and Mastery programs,
negating all the signs saying I should go back to
the beginning. I thought to myself "Hey I can just
use the pick up lines and some of this other stuff
and I'll be instantly successful with women." That
didn't work and I found my face getting very red
and my shirt getting very wet from women's
rejections.

I got your Cocky Comedy program a few days ago. I
listened it back to back probably eleven times and
I still wasn't getting it. Well, last Friday I tried
again using the new lines I had learned but I still
found my shirt wet. I got very upset. Now I am not
talking hissy fit upset, I am talking "it's go time"
upset. I decided to go and blow off some steam. I had
heard that a new coffee shop was opening up. I thought
why not can't hurt anything more. No more than about
two minutes after me entering the shop, a fiesty definite
10 redhead walks in. I got up to try. I got behind
her in line and looked at her thinking what could I
say. She caught me looking and said "It's not polite
to stare, you know." I snapped back with "Then why
are you staring." "I am not." she said. I then mocked
it, gave her the name Kid, then she was putty in my
hand. I asked for email and then said "You know you're
probably just going to stare at my picture the entire
time online. Why don't you give me you number as well?"
She wrote it down and slammed the piece of paper in
my hand. "There, happy. Now be here at 7:00 next week."
I said "No you be at Starbucks at 7:30 next week. And
I'll think about joining you." "Think about it..?" she
said in a kind of cooing voice. I said dominatly "Think
about it!"

I never in all my life felt like that. And I could
never have done this without your help thanks Double
D. I'll let you know how everything works out.

Thanks in MS, DA"


....lol, I guess that will teach him to not start from
the beginning and learn the basics first.

Anyway, this program will teach you the one skill
you can learn FAST... that will help you meet more
women and create more attraction NOW.

I'll even send it to you to check out for a month
with ZERO risk. I'm absolutely convinced that it will
help you succeed with more women INSTANTLY.

If you don't like it, just send it back and don't
pay anything... NO JOKE.

All the details, plus some FANTASTIC sample clips
of the program are here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/CockyComedy/

....Oh, and if you're reading this right now and you
haven't taken the time to download my online eBook
"Double Your Dating", then you need to go and do
that FIRST. You can download it and be reading
it within just a couple of minutes. It's here:

http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/e/eBook/

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.





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