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3rd August 2006, 03:59
How To Interpret A Woman's Words And Body Langauge
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WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN...
I hope you're sitting down... because what I'm
about to share with you will change how you view women
and dating.
I'm about to take you "behind the scenes" in the
female mind.
I'm going to give you a perspective that most men
never see or realize.
Unfortunately for most guys, not seeing things
the way I'm about to share with you keeps them trapped
in their own little world of failure.
If you pay careful attention to the things I'm
about to reveal to you, you'll definitely have more
success with women.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WORDS AND THE
REAL WORLD...
Have you ever heard a woman say something like:
"I want a guy who is sensitive."
"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings."
"I want a guy who's a good communicator."
"I want a guy who is strong."
"I want a guy who is sexy."
...?
Of course you have.
Women say this stuff all the time.
One of my favorites is:
"I want a REAL MAN."
I love that one.
In the past, when I'd hear women say "I want a
REAL MAN" I had NO IDEA what the hell they were talking
about.
It almost didn't make sense.
But keep in mind, even though these things don't
always make sense to us guys, they make PERFECT sense
to women.
Here's the problem...
When a woman says one of these things, she actually
MEANS something that is different from what a guy
would mean if he said the same words.
Let me explain.
If a guy says "I'm going to stay home and relax
today", he probably means that he's going to stay
home, watch some sports, drink a beer, look at pictures
of women on the internet, and order a pizza.
If a WOMAN says that she's going to stay home and
relax, she's probably NOT going to watch some sports,
drink a beer, look at pictures of women on the internet,
and order a pizza.
IMPORTANT NOTICE: If you are reading this right now
and you are a woman who watches sports, drinks beer,
looks at pictures of the women on the internet, and
orders pizza to relax, then contact me immediately
at the email address below. And send pictures.
Back to what I was saying...
Women are DIFFERENT from men. And the words they
use often don't mean what they SOUND like they mean.
So the FIRST thing that you have to get through
your head is that just because a woman SAYS something
to you doesn't mean that it means that you THINK it
means.
Catch my meaning?
THE BIG SECRET SHE ISN'T TELLING YOU
There's a little secret that women never happen
to mention when they're describing what they want
in a man.
Unfortunately for all of us good guys who are trying
to be what women want... and hoping that if we try
hard enough to please women that they'll like us...
this little secret is causing us a LOT of trouble.
The SECRET is that women ONLY want the things that
they're asking for from a guy who already has about
100 other qualities that they never mention.
In other words, if a woman says "I want a man who
is a good communicator", what she REALLY means is:
"I want a guy who already has his life together, is
interesting, unpredictable, dominant, funny, healthy,
charismatic, confident, and loyal... who is ALSO a
good communicator."
The REALITY is that when a woman says one of these
"I want a guy who" statements, she actually has an
IDEAL guy in mind, who ALSO happens to be a good communicator.
She's NOT imagining Homer Simpson sitting on his
couch reading a book on communication.
The reality of this situation is that what women
RELLY want is a man who makes them feel the emotional
and physical response that I like to call ATTRACTION.
They want a man who makes them FEEL IT.
But most women either can't describe the things
that actually make her feel ATTRACTION, or they don't
WANT to have to describe them, because they want a
man who already IS those things... without having to
learn them.
Think about it.
If you were hiring a bodyguard, would you want
one that said "Yea, I can be a bodyguard. Just give
me some time to learn..." or would you want one that
already KNEW how to kick ass anytime, anywhere without
having to learn?
Duh.
Well same goes with women.
They don't WANT a guy that they have to train.
If you don't already have the UNIVERSAL FOUNDATION
of what appeals to women, then no amount of changing
and improving things like your communication and sensitivity
is going to help you.
WHAT IS A REAL MAN?
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea
of a "Real Man".
You hear both women and men using the term.
But what does it actually MEAN?
And is it important?
Well, after thinking about this particular topic
for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that
it is a VERY important topic.
At this point, I believe that a REAL MAN is this
"ideal" that women imagine when they're saying "I
want a guy who is sensitive".
They're thinking of the REAL MAN, and then they're
imagining him ALSO being sensitive.
There are a lot of aspects to this REAL MAN.
Here are a few that are important:
-Status
-Lack of Insecurities
-Standards
-Experience
-Humor
-Unpredictability
-Leadership
-Challenge
...and the list goes on.
It's actually not easy to describe a REAL MAN in
a few sentences... but I'll tell you what... a woman
can recognize one INSTANTLY.
THE MISTAKE MEN MAKE
Now, a common mistake that men make is taking something
that a woman SAYS that she wants, and doing it TOO
MUCH, thinking that if "A little bit is good, then
more must be better".
For instance, a woman SAYS that she likes guys
who are "thoughtful". So you go out and buy her a
bunch of gifts, and give her cute cards every time
you see her, and call her all the time to tell her
that you miss her.
What happens?
She leaves you for her jerk ex-boyfriend.
Huh?
This would be kind of like a woman saying "My favorite
food is chocolate" and then you thinking it would
be good to feed her chocolate for every meal just
because it's her favorite... or adding chocolate
to every single dish you make for her from now on...
and forgetting that 97% of what she eats still needs
to be OTHER FOODS.
Let me land the plane for you.
Women don't MEAN what you THINK they mean when
they talk about what they want in a man.
And if you take the things women say too literally,
you're going to wind up shooting yourself in the foot.
WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN...
So let me "decode" what women "really" mean when
they say common things.
Consider this your own personal "female language
translator". Refer to it often.
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...
"I want a guy who is sensitive."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in
life, who has goals and objectives... who has passion
for things. If we're out together, he always keeps
me on my toes, and I'm always wondering what's going
to happen next. He's challenging, interesting, and
funny. I would really like it if he was also sensitive
enough to know when I need a hug, or to be held, or
when I want him to make love to me."
Does this make sense?
Again, she's not imagining a picture of a boring,
predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt feelings
because he's so "sensitive".
Big difference.
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...
"I want a guy who is in touch with his feelings."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who doesn't
get upset about petty things... a guy who can deal
with the fact that I freak out emotionally sometimes...
and who knows how to be cool when things are tough.
But I also want him to be in touch with his feelings
so that: 1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then
eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and
2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a passionate
rush... he'll grab me and make love to me like a beast!"
What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a meek,
afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do you like
me? Because I sure like you".
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS:
"I want a guy who's a good communicator."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time, because
he knows how to let me know what's on his mind without
using words. I want the kind of guy that can touch
me in a certain way and I feel tingles all over my
body. And I want the kind of guy that can say things
in a way that I understand... not crudely and man-like."
WHAT ABOUT "SEXY"?
You'll often hear women saying that they what a
"Sexy Man".
Now, I USED to think that they meant that they
wanted a PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE man when they said
this.
Sometimes this is exactly what they mean when they
use the term "sexy". But I've found that, most of
the time, women mean something TOTALLY different when
they use the term "sexy".
You see, a woman generally bases more of her life
around what she FEELS than a man does.
And the concept of "sexy" is usually used to describe
the way a man makes a woman FEEL than it is used to
describe how HE LOOKS.
Think about women's romance novels for a moment.
Women's romance novels account for about a fifth of
ALL BOOKS SOLD.
What do these books contain?
WORDS.
Words that DESCRIBE things.
Descriptions that make women FEEL things.
My point: If you want to learn how to be a "sexy
man", then the way you LOOK isn't the most IMPORTANT
thing.
I'll tell you something, too.
Learning the secrets of being a "sexy man" can be
a very rewarding experience.
A lot of guys out there, including me, know EXACTLY
what it's like to be either on a date with, or in a
relationship with a woman who has NO INTENTION of being
with you "physically".
In other words, she's just not feeling that
powerful "sexual" ATTRACTION for you.
And you don't know how to MAKE her feel it.
Well, let me tell you...
Just like all the other things that a woman "says"
that she wants in a man... that most men don't ever
"get", being SEXY is one of the BIG ONES.
If you understand the secrets of being SEXY, you
will notice that women start to behave VERY differently
around you.
For more specific techniques and step-by-step systems
for becoming all of these things that I've mentioned
above, INCLUDING "sexy", then I recommend that you
check out my online eBook, and my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.
My eBook "Double Your Dating" comes with three
FREE bonus reports. One of these reports is called
"Sex Secrets", and it teaches you how to take things
from one step to the next when it comes to "getting
physical" with a woman. If you do these things, you
will INSTANTLY make a woman realize and remember that
you are a SEXY man. I absolutely guarantee it.
You can read some great free samples, and download
it here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/Ebook/
And if you're ready to take things to the next level,
and you're REALLY SERIOUS about getting this area of your
life handled... and about having TOTAL POWER AND CONFIDENCE
with women in ANY SITUATION, then you owe it to yourself
to check out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
It's over 12 full hours of me teaching LIVE... and it
will teach you exactly how to become the REAL MAN that
I've described above... and how to meet and dating the
kinds of women you've always wanted. Free audio and video
samples are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/AdvancedSeries/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!
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Copyright 2004 David DeAngelo Communications
Inc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Dating
and David DeAngelo are trademarks of David
DeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all of
the following by accepting and reading this: You
understand this to be an expression of opinions
and not professional advice. It is only to be
used for personal entertainment purposes. You are
solely responsible for the use of the ideas,
concepts, and content and hold David DeAngelo
Communications Inc. and all members and affiliates
harmless in any event or claim. If you are under
the age of 18, please go to the link at the end
of this e-letter to stop receiving it or send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard HughesPkwy, 5th Floor
Las Vegas, NV 89109.
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future mailings just click the link at the end
of this newsletter. To sign yourself up for this
no cost e-letter, visit www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com
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WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN...
I hope you're sitting down... because what I'm
about to share with you will change how you view women
and dating.
I'm about to take you "behind the scenes" in the
female mind.
I'm going to give you a perspective that most men
never see or realize.
Unfortunately for most guys, not seeing things
the way I'm about to share with you keeps them trapped
in their own little world of failure.
If you pay careful attention to the things I'm
about to reveal to you, you'll definitely have more
success with women.
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WORDS AND THE
REAL WORLD...
Have you ever heard a woman say something like:
"I want a guy who is sensitive."
"I want a guy who's in touch with his feelings."
"I want a guy who's a good communicator."
"I want a guy who is strong."
"I want a guy who is sexy."
...?
Of course you have.
Women say this stuff all the time.
One of my favorites is:
"I want a REAL MAN."
I love that one.
In the past, when I'd hear women say "I want a
REAL MAN" I had NO IDEA what the hell they were talking
about.
It almost didn't make sense.
But keep in mind, even though these things don't
always make sense to us guys, they make PERFECT sense
to women.
Here's the problem...
When a woman says one of these things, she actually
MEANS something that is different from what a guy
would mean if he said the same words.
Let me explain.
If a guy says "I'm going to stay home and relax
today", he probably means that he's going to stay
home, watch some sports, drink a beer, look at pictures
of women on the internet, and order a pizza.
If a WOMAN says that she's going to stay home and
relax, she's probably NOT going to watch some sports,
drink a beer, look at pictures of women on the internet,
and order a pizza.
IMPORTANT NOTICE: If you are reading this right now
and you are a woman who watches sports, drinks beer,
looks at pictures of the women on the internet, and
orders pizza to relax, then contact me immediately
at the email address below. And send pictures.
Back to what I was saying...
Women are DIFFERENT from men. And the words they
use often don't mean what they SOUND like they mean.
So the FIRST thing that you have to get through
your head is that just because a woman SAYS something
to you doesn't mean that it means that you THINK it
means.
Catch my meaning?
THE BIG SECRET SHE ISN'T TELLING YOU
There's a little secret that women never happen
to mention when they're describing what they want
in a man.
Unfortunately for all of us good guys who are trying
to be what women want... and hoping that if we try
hard enough to please women that they'll like us...
this little secret is causing us a LOT of trouble.
The SECRET is that women ONLY want the things that
they're asking for from a guy who already has about
100 other qualities that they never mention.
In other words, if a woman says "I want a man who
is a good communicator", what she REALLY means is:
"I want a guy who already has his life together, is
interesting, unpredictable, dominant, funny, healthy,
charismatic, confident, and loyal... who is ALSO a
good communicator."
The REALITY is that when a woman says one of these
"I want a guy who" statements, she actually has an
IDEAL guy in mind, who ALSO happens to be a good communicator.
She's NOT imagining Homer Simpson sitting on his
couch reading a book on communication.
The reality of this situation is that what women
RELLY want is a man who makes them feel the emotional
and physical response that I like to call ATTRACTION.
They want a man who makes them FEEL IT.
But most women either can't describe the things
that actually make her feel ATTRACTION, or they don't
WANT to have to describe them, because they want a
man who already IS those things... without having to
learn them.
Think about it.
If you were hiring a bodyguard, would you want
one that said "Yea, I can be a bodyguard. Just give
me some time to learn..." or would you want one that
already KNEW how to kick ass anytime, anywhere without
having to learn?
Duh.
Well same goes with women.
They don't WANT a guy that they have to train.
If you don't already have the UNIVERSAL FOUNDATION
of what appeals to women, then no amount of changing
and improving things like your communication and sensitivity
is going to help you.
WHAT IS A REAL MAN?
Lately I've been thinking a lot about the idea
of a "Real Man".
You hear both women and men using the term.
But what does it actually MEAN?
And is it important?
Well, after thinking about this particular topic
for a long time, I've come to the conclusion that
it is a VERY important topic.
At this point, I believe that a REAL MAN is this
"ideal" that women imagine when they're saying "I
want a guy who is sensitive".
They're thinking of the REAL MAN, and then they're
imagining him ALSO being sensitive.
There are a lot of aspects to this REAL MAN.
Here are a few that are important:
-Status
-Lack of Insecurities
-Standards
-Experience
-Humor
-Unpredictability
-Leadership
-Challenge
...and the list goes on.
It's actually not easy to describe a REAL MAN in
a few sentences... but I'll tell you what... a woman
can recognize one INSTANTLY.
THE MISTAKE MEN MAKE
Now, a common mistake that men make is taking something
that a woman SAYS that she wants, and doing it TOO
MUCH, thinking that if "A little bit is good, then
more must be better".
For instance, a woman SAYS that she likes guys
who are "thoughtful". So you go out and buy her a
bunch of gifts, and give her cute cards every time
you see her, and call her all the time to tell her
that you miss her.
What happens?
She leaves you for her jerk ex-boyfriend.
Huh?
This would be kind of like a woman saying "My favorite
food is chocolate" and then you thinking it would
be good to feed her chocolate for every meal just
because it's her favorite... or adding chocolate
to every single dish you make for her from now on...
and forgetting that 97% of what she eats still needs
to be OTHER FOODS.
Let me land the plane for you.
Women don't MEAN what you THINK they mean when
they talk about what they want in a man.
And if you take the things women say too literally,
you're going to wind up shooting yourself in the foot.
WHAT WOMEN REALLY MEAN...
So let me "decode" what women "really" mean when
they say common things.
Consider this your own personal "female language
translator". Refer to it often.
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...
"I want a guy who is sensitive."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who is busy doing his own thing in
life, who has goals and objectives... who has passion
for things. If we're out together, he always keeps
me on my toes, and I'm always wondering what's going
to happen next. He's challenging, interesting, and
funny. I would really like it if he was also sensitive
enough to know when I need a hug, or to be held, or
when I want him to make love to me."
Does this make sense?
Again, she's not imagining a picture of a boring,
predictable, Wussy who is sharing his hurt feelings
because he's so "sensitive".
Big difference.
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS...
"I want a guy who is in touch with his feelings."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who is strong-willed, and who doesn't
get upset about petty things... a guy who can deal
with the fact that I freak out emotionally sometimes...
and who knows how to be cool when things are tough.
But I also want him to be in touch with his feelings
so that: 1) He doesn't repress his emotions and then
eventually kill 10 people in his workplace, and
2) When he's intimate with me, and he feels a passionate
rush... he'll grab me and make love to me like a beast!"
What she's NOT doing is making a picture of a meek,
afraid guy who calls all the time to ask "Do you like
me? Because I sure like you".
WHEN A WOMAN SAYS:
"I want a guy who's a good communicator."
WHAT SHE REALLY MEANS IS...
"I want a guy who doesn't talk all the time, because
he knows how to let me know what's on his mind without
using words. I want the kind of guy that can touch
me in a certain way and I feel tingles all over my
body. And I want the kind of guy that can say things
in a way that I understand... not crudely and man-like."
WHAT ABOUT "SEXY"?
You'll often hear women saying that they what a
"Sexy Man".
Now, I USED to think that they meant that they
wanted a PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE man when they said
this.
Sometimes this is exactly what they mean when they
use the term "sexy". But I've found that, most of
the time, women mean something TOTALLY different when
they use the term "sexy".
You see, a woman generally bases more of her life
around what she FEELS than a man does.
And the concept of "sexy" is usually used to describe
the way a man makes a woman FEEL than it is used to
describe how HE LOOKS.
Think about women's romance novels for a moment.
Women's romance novels account for about a fifth of
ALL BOOKS SOLD.
What do these books contain?
WORDS.
Words that DESCRIBE things.
Descriptions that make women FEEL things.
My point: If you want to learn how to be a "sexy
man", then the way you LOOK isn't the most IMPORTANT
thing.
I'll tell you something, too.
Learning the secrets of being a "sexy man" can be
a very rewarding experience.
A lot of guys out there, including me, know EXACTLY
what it's like to be either on a date with, or in a
relationship with a woman who has NO INTENTION of being
with you "physically".
In other words, she's just not feeling that
powerful "sexual" ATTRACTION for you.
And you don't know how to MAKE her feel it.
Well, let me tell you...
Just like all the other things that a woman "says"
that she wants in a man... that most men don't ever
"get", being SEXY is one of the BIG ONES.
If you understand the secrets of being SEXY, you
will notice that women start to behave VERY differently
around you.
For more specific techniques and step-by-step systems
for becoming all of these things that I've mentioned
above, INCLUDING "sexy", then I recommend that you
check out my online eBook, and my Advanced Dating
Techniques program.
My eBook "Double Your Dating" comes with three
FREE bonus reports. One of these reports is called
"Sex Secrets", and it teaches you how to take things
from one step to the next when it comes to "getting
physical" with a woman. If you do these things, you
will INSTANTLY make a woman realize and remember that
you are a SEXY man. I absolutely guarantee it.
You can read some great free samples, and download
it here right now:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/Ebook/
And if you're ready to take things to the next level,
and you're REALLY SERIOUS about getting this area of your
life handled... and about having TOTAL POWER AND CONFIDENCE
with women in ANY SITUATION, then you owe it to yourself
to check out my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD program.
It's over 12 full hours of me teaching LIVE... and it
will teach you exactly how to become the REAL MAN that
I've described above... and how to meet and dating the
kinds of women you've always wanted. Free audio and video
samples are here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingAdvice.com/AdvancedSeries/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David D.
P.S. If you'd like to send me a Success Story,
Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs
max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask
your question. I appreciate all of the "Your
stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how
well your stuff works" comments, but the fact is
that I DO need to hear all of the specifics...
because this helps other guys to see what's
working in different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success
Story" in the subject line of the email. I read
these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials
and tell me where you're from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@DoubleYourDating.com
...don't just hit "reply" to this email. Thanks!
--------------------------------------------------
Copyright 2004 David DeAngelo Communications
Inc., All Rights Reserved. Double Your Dating
and David DeAngelo are trademarks of David
DeAngelo Communications Inc. You agree to all of
the following by accepting and reading this: You
understand this to be an expression of opinions
and not professional advice. It is only to be
used for personal entertainment purposes. You are
solely responsible for the use of the ideas,
concepts, and content and hold David DeAngelo
Communications Inc. and all members and affiliates
harmless in any event or claim. If you are under
the age of 18, please go to the link at the end
of this e-letter to stop receiving it or send
mail to "DDMI" 3960 Howard HughesPkwy, 5th Floor
Las Vegas, NV 89109.
-------------------------------------------------
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