Reading And Using Sexual Body Language


I have some interesting news for you...

Attractive women know within SECONDS of seeing
and/or interacting with you if you're a sexually aware,
confident man.

And they make the UNCONSCIOUS decision of whether
or not you're a possible sexual partner within a maximum
of a few minutes of interacting with you.

These unconscious decisions are made mostly on
the basis of body language and voice tone.

And since we know that "Attraction Isn't A Choice",
we can generalize the following:

1. If you don't know what types of body language communicate
that you're one of these "sexy beast" guys, you're
probably not doing the right things "by accident".

2. The words you say actually don't matter much.

What matters is HOW you say them, both with your voice
and with your body language.

3. It is possible to learn how to communicate that
you're a "sexually aware, confident man" using your
body language and voice tone.

Learning this skill will make attracting women MUCH
easier.

Unfortunately, most men are too caught up in the
idea of being macho and independent to work on this
area of their life... and as a result, they waste most
of their time in "quiet desperation", never seeing
any real improvement because they don't seek help and
use the help to improve.

In short, if you don't know whether or not you
project the kind of body language and voice tone that
makes women feel that emotional jolt of sexual attraction,
then you can bet your last dollar that you aren't.
What's a guy to do?

Learn it, then use it.

When I first started learning about how to meet
women, I can remember thinking that I needed to learn
pick up lines and other tricks.

I had no idea that this stuff was basically useless
without the all-important understanding of how body
language works.

After a lot of trial and error, I started to realize
that when my body language and voice tone were correct,
I could say ALMOST ANYTHING to women, and they would
feel ATTRACTION.

Like most guys, you probably want to know WHY this
is, as well as how to do it.

Well, if you want to REALLY get a deep understanding
of this topic, I suggest that you check out my new
CD Audio Program.

I spend several hours working on the "why".

So in this newsletter, I'm going to focus on some
of the "How To"...

Here are three things you can do to IMMEDIATELY
increase your attractiveness to women:

1) Learn how to hold eye contact for longer than her.

If you see a woman that you find attractive, and
she looks back at you, DON'T LOOK AWAY.

Most guys become very self conscious and look away as
soon as a woman notices them looking.

This is a HUGE mistake.

If you want to communicate all the right things,
you need to show IMMEDIATELY that you're not afraid,
and that you're not at all self conscious about the
fact that you are checking her out.

A good exercise is to walk through a mall for a
few hours and look DIRECTLY at every woman you see.

Walk into every store, and look directly into the eyes
of every single woman you encounter... and DON'T LOOK
AWAY UNTIL AFTER SHE DOES.

Do yourself a huge favor, and don't open your eyes
really wide and smile like a serial killer while you're
doing this exercise.

Women don't tend to enjoy that.

Just learn how to hold eye contact with a woman
until she looks away...

This is very important.


2) Use confident posture.

Most men I see hold themselves in a way that says
"I am not very confident about myself or anything I'm
saying".

And most of the guys I know who are chick MAGNETS
hold themselves in a way that says "I'm the dominant
male in this situation... I own this place".

Suck in your stomach, hold your head up and back,
pull your shoulders back, arch your back... and generally
hold yourself like you're the most powerful person
you've ever seen or heard of.

Yea, I know this sounds dorky, but do it anyway.

You'll probably feel strange and self conscious
at first, but not to worry.

If you continue to practice your confident posture,
you'll soon become comfortable with it.

And more important, you'll attract attention from
women.

Remember, women aren't interested in finding another
average Wuss Boy.

Women aren't ATTRACTED to WUSSIES.

Carry yourself like a manly man, and attractive
women will notice and have INSTANT positive unconscious
reactions to you.

3) Use SLOW, CALCULATED movements and gestures.

Watch a few James Bond films. And while you're
at it, check out "Dirty Rotten Scoundrels".

Have you ever noticed that James Bond never looks
like he doesn't know how to act?

And that he never fidgets or behaves nervously?

Everything James does is a little slower than is
should be.

He's just too cool.

Try learning how to turn your head slowly, how
to blink slowly, how to change facial expressions
slowly... and how to gesture slowly.

This makes a huge impact on how others perceive
you.

This kind of body language transmits the message:
"I'm so comfortable in my own skin, it hurts".


4) Confident voice tone.

Most people speak with weak, squeaky voices that
convey the message "I'm not confident... I have no
self esteem".

This turns women off. Big time.

If you want to attract beautiful women, you're
going to need to take a few lessons from Barry White.

Learn how to speak with a deeper voice.

Learn to speak from down in your chest and stomach.

Add more bass to your voice.

Also, learn how to speak slower... and how to articulate
every word better. Become comfortable pausing... it
creates anticipation. Most guys talk too much, too
fast, and feel like they need to talk because they're
nervous.

Don't do it! Learn to lean back, relax, and become
comfortable with the tension that comes from silence.

If you work on communicating with your BODY AND
VOICE that you're a confident, sexually aware, stud-muffinly
guy, then all the techniques you're learning from
me will work TEN times better.

Really.