It is said, and I have also experienced it that the more time you give to someone, the less they value your time. They might show temporary happiness but in a longer run they just become used to you being readily available.

Too much circulation makes the price go down: the more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

What should we do? Should we withdraw ourselves periodically as Our brain tells us to, or should we give 100% time as Our heart tells us to?
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It should depend upon the person you're spending time with. If it's your husband, your wife, kids, close family and close friend, I would say that one should be readily available, as long as you still have time for yourself. At least whatever happens to your relationship to that person, you can honestly say that you did your best. But personally, I value those I spend most time with as they are naturally very special for me. My bestfrend for example, we are always there for each other but you can never tell us that we take each other for granted. Besides, it is not just quantity, it is quality that is important.